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how do i tell my 3yr old his daddy has gone to jail?? PLEASE HELP :'(
Hi everyone, really need some advice. I split up with baby daddy when LO was 6 months old. Since then my ex has just been going really down hill and causing trouble with everyone and anyone. (he is not a nice person) Anyway, last week he got sent down for 2 years 4 months. I really dont know how to tell my son. I dont want to say he has gone to jail as my son see's jail as somewhere he sends his toys when they have been really naughty! so obviously he will know daddy has been naughty
What can i say/do?? do i say he has 'moved away' for a bit? i just dont want to upset him. My dad went to prison when me and my sister where very young (my sons age now) and my sister was badly effected by this. She started getting bad OCD, nervous twitches, wouldnt talk to anyone at all...I REALLY dont want my poor boy to go through this!
Has anyone been through the same kind of thing? What did you say to LO? Advice desperately needed please because he has been asking to go to daddys all day today and i just dont know what to say.
Thank you
What can i say/do?? do i say he has 'moved away' for a bit? i just dont want to upset him. My dad went to prison when me and my sister where very young (my sons age now) and my sister was badly effected by this. She started getting bad OCD, nervous twitches, wouldnt talk to anyone at all...I REALLY dont want my poor boy to go through this!
Has anyone been through the same kind of thing? What did you say to LO? Advice desperately needed please because he has been asking to go to daddys all day today and i just dont know what to say.
Thank you
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I think iwantanotherpls has given some really good advice. xx