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My babies dad lives in America

So im 22 i live in the UK and in a happy long distance relationship. Hes 19 and lives in Pennsylvania. Ive just found out im 4/5 weeks pregnant,  im pretty sure I want it, hes uncertain but leaning towards abortion. Both of us are against it but feel maybe this isnt the right time. I just want to know all of the facts or opinions.

How can two people bring a child up over 3000miles apart?

have you made it work?  

Please dont give me hate for thinking about this Its the hardest decision I thought Id never have to make

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  • It is a difficult decision to make, there's no way your partner can be there for you alot during the pregnancy or during the babies first year,unless you move in together at some point.

    If you feel you can cope as a single mum, with a baby that might or might not see their father, then don't rush intoabortion, it isn't always the answer

    End of day, it's both your decision but you do have this neq life to think about too 

    Don't regret it x

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