Ridiculous ex partner!
Hi all, ive just joined this cause im stuck in what to do right now! Now although i accept there will be mixed views on this i am FUMING!
My childs father has from day one of pregnancy, never bothered with our child, has done drugs, constantly been unfaithful, been violent and angry in front of our young boy and the same goes for his family have been exactly the same! He struggles with mental health issues which have always been an excuse, as he has also blamed me for him not being able to cope on the fact i didnt have an abortion as he asked me too simply cause i dont agree with it at all. Now we have been apart for the majority of this year, he has constantly played with my emotions saying he wants me back and then he loves someone else etc etc, but none of this bothers me in the fact that i dont love him anymore all want is for him to stop dropping his son every five minutes just because things arent going his way. Its become insanely tiring and im sick of seeing my son have to be let down by him, now he has split from his most recent fling he has decided he wants to be in his life again, to which i have now told him if he is serious about this then he should take legal proceedings to make a more stable Arrangement around this situation as it obviously isnt working the way we have been doing it. Because of me saying this he has now called the social services on me for refusing him access, i cannot believe it! In all my life i find it hard to believe that trying to do whats best for your son only ends up getting further aggravations. Can someone please advise me in what i should do next? I am still waiting for a phone call or visit from them..