Both my daughters hate their own father
I have two daughters one is 14 & the other is 8
Both my daughters hate their father for different reasons, which is making my life a little difficult.
Now he's taking me back court as I stopped access in October after my 8 year old deciding to turn on him out of the blue and nearly broke my hand after she wouldn't let go of it and the stand off lasted for three hours solid. In which the ex just stood there while I tried my hardest to get her off me and she cried and shouted at him in broad day light the whole three hours. After the three hours he just walked away breaking the court order he had placed on me. I'm actually a disabled person with a weak left side which of course my girls know about. This is why she had hold of the right hand knowing full well I was to weak against her.
I did this every two weeks for two month taking her to meet her father like the court order said but it was all ways him who,walked away and it I was who ended up injured or hurt. She didn't mean to.
Anyway I have these very angry 14 & 8 year old daughters and their fighting between them is getting out of hand. Epically the 8 year old. The 14 yearold won the last court and didn't have to see her father but the 8 year old did. Still hate the judge and the ex for splitting the siblings up.
i have been told by my own solicitor that I need to,go on a parenting course as I shouldn't be allowing
1. My eldest to be my carer
2. I don't discipline them enough
3. I expect to much from them
I think they forgot to give me my manual when I had my daughters
sorry for the moon but I feel so alone.