Coming between 2 brothers
hi all, firstly I want to start this conversation off by saying I feel ashamed and humiliated as it is
but 5 years ago I slept with my boyfriends brother (he wasn't my boyfriend at the time and he knew I had slept with his brother!) but his brother had a girlfriend. It was a secret that was never supposed to Come out and it was long forgotten about. i have been with my partner now (his brother) for 4 years and we have had a son together. I had to meet my boyfriends brothers girlfriend and I made out it had never happened (he did to) but only to protect their relationship! He then admitted it was true, She admitted that if I told her she wouldn't have believed me anyway. Now I've got everyone against me like it's my fault. i was single, no kids, like I said it was 5 years ago! He was the one in the relationship! yes maybe I should have told her but how could I when we would always be together because of both brothers? the brothers have even fell out now Even though there was no secrets between them both it was just the girlfriend. they've now been together 7 years. ive tried speaking to the girl as it obviously makes it awkward for everyone in the family (they knew about it anyway as I did admit to them it had happened) & She will not speak to me at all, shes blaming me for everyrhing and she's even turned to class A drugs to try and "cut it out". I feel terrible, but she's still with her partner they're even getting married now! I just don't know what to do, shall I leave her for a while or shall I try and talk to her again and say how sorry I am? I never meant to hurt her i didnt even know her.