No sparks anymore!
I have 3 beautiful kids and I've been married for 4 years but we've known each other since we were teenagers. We hardly argue and rarely have any problems but there's no spark between us anymore! He doesn't kiss me, other than a peck on the lips, but then the sex is still really good but I find kissing more intimate than sex.
I have already spoken to him about the lack of intimacy and the conversation becomes awkward and uncomfortable.
He never attempts to take me out or suggest any family trips. If we go any where it's only because I've planned or booked it. He is a fantastic dad to our 3 kids and he does tell me most days that he loves me but I feel like my life has become so static and everyday seems the same, I just can't imagine my life being like this forever.
Can anyone give me some advice? Is this a normal situation when married with kids? Feel guilty for feeling soo unhappy.