Just looking for a little bit of understanding from other woman going through the same thing as myself.
My husband and I were so In love before we had our daughter and it’s not to say that our daughter is to blame but I have just noticed lots of changes with him towards me.
Before I got pregnant we were Inseparable, he used to pick me up from work every evening, take me shopping, take me out to eat, always think about me and give me sweet little phone calls when we weren’t together, then I got pregnant and we were still the same, but it was only until after I had my daughter that he’s completely changed towards me.
When we argue and he does not come home or call me and message me for days and when he does decide to contact me the texts are full of horrible negative abuse and swearing. He also uses my daughter as a weapon against me because i honestly won’t retaliate as I believe that I must be happy so that my daughter doesn’t have any bad energy around her. So I just block his number for a few days until he calms down.
I don’t feel like this is healthy for my daughter to be around or myself.
Please let me know if you are in a similar situation and if you are how are you dealing?
Many thanks ladies xxx