OH has naked photos of his ex

Anon21 · Jan 9, 2020 9:01AM

So..this is embarrassing. My OH has nudes of his ex on his old phone. He uses his phone for music and that's why I was on it. By curiosity I looked at his photos (honestly I wanted to see younger photos of him as I havent seen many) and I came across them.

I wouldnt care if it was random women from the internet as I myself watch porn and don't see any harm in admiring other peoples bodies. It just upsets me that it's his bloody ex.

Am I being overdramatic? How would you feel?

Sebbie1952 · Jan 12, 2020 5:25PM

I think this is a personal question. Some people are really bothered about their partners watching porn let alone looking at photos of their ex. Firstly he may not even look at them. Just because they are in his photos he may have forgotten they were there. Second of all he is with you now not her. He may not have thought to delete them as he may not even think about her.

Try not to let it get to you. Maybe even just say to your partner they you looked on his phone to find old photos of him and came across them. Sometimes honesty is the best policy and you will be able to tell by his reaction if there is anything to worry about. Its better to get it out in the open rather than sit and let it brew. If it is something that is a problem and I am not saying it is its better to know now also.

I hope that helps

EmeliaLily · Jun 3, 2020 1:38PM

I would be fuming!

OH has naked photos of his ex

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