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He wants nothing to do with me
Winry90
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So this is an extreme for me. I am at a loss as to what to do and unfortunately can not afford counseling and don't have people to talk to.
I am pregnant with my 2nd child. I also have a step son who I love dearly. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. This is the 2nd time we have been together. He screwed around on me before and we split up (yes I know I am stupid for getting back with him).
To say we are struggling is an understatement. I am 23 weeks now and he wants NOTHING to do with me. I finally sat down and had a serious "what is going on talk" and he told me he isn't attracted to me anymore. He said he has no desire to be with me. I am freaking heartbroken.He believes it is all fine and that we should just not deal with it. He doesn't touch me. I honestly feel disgusting. He never sets his phone down. He gets off work sits and plays games on his phone until 2 in the morning and then gets up and goes to work. I have tried talking to him and understanding, but I feel jaded and hurt. Our relationship was falling apart already and now I am just defeated.
I cant imagine forcing through my life with someone I have no connection to, but I also do not want to lose his son.
We have talked, tried to work things out and I can tell that both of us our just riding it out. I dont know what to do anymore. Should I just wait till the baby comes and hope something changes or just cut my losses and start rebuilding my life?
I am pregnant with my 2nd child. I also have a step son who I love dearly. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. This is the 2nd time we have been together. He screwed around on me before and we split up (yes I know I am stupid for getting back with him).
To say we are struggling is an understatement. I am 23 weeks now and he wants NOTHING to do with me. I finally sat down and had a serious "what is going on talk" and he told me he isn't attracted to me anymore. He said he has no desire to be with me. I am freaking heartbroken.He believes it is all fine and that we should just not deal with it. He doesn't touch me. I honestly feel disgusting. He never sets his phone down. He gets off work sits and plays games on his phone until 2 in the morning and then gets up and goes to work. I have tried talking to him and understanding, but I feel jaded and hurt. Our relationship was falling apart already and now I am just defeated.
I cant imagine forcing through my life with someone I have no connection to, but I also do not want to lose his son.
We have talked, tried to work things out and I can tell that both of us our just riding it out. I dont know what to do anymore. Should I just wait till the baby comes and hope something changes or just cut my losses and start rebuilding my life?
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