Younger lover!! eek!
I am currently 30 weeks pregnant with my second baby, well technically third. I have a seven year old daughter and I had a son in 2006 who sadly passed away in 2007. I am having great difficulty with the father of my current baby. I am 26 and he is 18!!!! I understand that he is young and more than likely not ready to become a father but it is too late for regrets now. He tells me I chose to keep the baby so therefore I must deal with it, although when i first told him i was pregnant, he told me he wanted me 2 keep the baby. I wasnt ready for another child but due to losing my son I felt that i would be takin the P if i had a termination. He does not help, rarely calls to see how I am and has now sprung it on me that he wants a blood test when our baby is born and until then me being pregnant is not important to him. The situation is highly depressing me. Whenever I speak to him, I end up being made to feel like crap, one min he wants to be there, the next min he doesnt. I dont know whether to just cut him off completely or allow him to keep popping in and out whenever he feels like it? The thing that scares me the most is that he will not be there when his child is born, i dont even have a friend that i can ask to be there with me when i go into labour. What does one do?