Hi I'm new to this forum
Hi all. I'm 20 yrs old i have an 8month old daughter daisy and im 9 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner split for good 2 weeks ago and hes done nothin but let daisy down since so i've told him not to bother now, i feel so hurt and angry and im worried about being on my own with 2 babies, is anyone else in a similar situation? Any advice would be lovely
Sarah x x
Sarah x x
i'm nearly 25 and i split with my ex when our daughter was 11 months. she's now 15 months.
i gave my ex 3 months of chances, and he too kept letting rhianna down and is really irresponsible, so i have now said he can see her...but it has to be at my house for now and regular or not at all.
he 1st said he'd rather not see her at all and would take me to court unless i carried on letting him take her. i stood my ground and got a solicitor.
he didn't see her for 4 weeks and then has only been a couple of times for an hour or 2 since.
he loves his social life and sleep too much.
its hard not to feel resentful hun, just rememberyou have got 2 beautiful children from it and its him missing out.
i always worry that if i stop him from seeing rhianna, she'll hold it against me when she's older, so thats why i still let him see her but on my terms now, and i keep a diary of all the times helets her down and themessages he sends as his excuse. if it carries on i will then say don't bother coming at all, at least then when she's older, i can show her why i stopped it.
it is hard, but then i look at my gorgeous little girl and our really strong bond, and don't care about the rest.
good luck hunny and keep your chin up.
let me know how you get on.
Thank you for your reply anfd i'l keep you posted, its been since fri now and no phone call,email or text etcx x
darren would go a week or so without asking after rhianna.
if he never bothers getting in contact...i shouldn't worry...if when your kids are older they start asking questions and he says you said he couldn't see them...you just say if he cared that much he would've and should've done everything he could to see them no matter what you say.
Well its been over 2 days now and still no phone call or text, shows how much he cares doesn't it?! idiot, hes the one missing out i still have my home daisy and my fetus (lol) what does he have? nothing! im having a rant sorry!
he'll probably be in touch now the weekend is over and socialising has calmed down til next weekend.
have you arranged maintenance with him or been touch with csa yet?
i must admit that i have found a new man when she was 10months n he has brought her up n ive just had another little girl so i hope that you do one day and that everythink goes right for u hun but like u said at least u ave your kids thats all the matters