Should I have a 3rd baby?
Just looking for some advice really, I'm the proud mum of 2 beautiful boys (aged 2.5 years and 17 months) so life is pretty manic.
we went through fertility treatment for our first and then felol pregnant without even trying with my second when our first was just six months old. I feel totally blessed because there were times I thought I'd never have one.
im 35 the end of next year so myself and my husband said that if we decide to have a third we will start ttc next summer. I'm agonising over the decision to have a 3rd if I'm totally honest if we had a boy and a girl we wouldn't b having a third but we would both like a little girl. I honestly think that of I am lucky enough to get pregnant again then I will most probably have another boy and dont get me wrong I would be happy with that It would just be nice to know that I tried and it wasn't meant to be.
i worry I we don't try for a third I'll b wondering what if. another concern is money and how we will manage we both have good jobs but have a lot of outgoings and I don't want to not be able to do anything because we have stretched ourselves.
i just don't know how I'm going to make the decision X