3.4 year old comfortble in nappies HELP
My DS is 3.4 and still in nappies.( cloth ) and have been thinking about starting to potty train, only trouble is that DS REALLY doesn't care about sitting in his own mess and never has to be honest. And I don't just mean a sodden wet nappy! His poo's are seriously big and smelly (like any toddler I guess??) yet he will not acknowledge that he has done a poo. Every time I ask him if he has done a poo he tells me "NO! and refuse’s to have his nappy changed so I delay it a while till he is more aggreable, he also has a nasty habit of immediately sitting down when he has done a poo, which makes nappy changes worse.
I’ll ask him to sit on the potty like a big boy and yet again he'll shout at the top of his voice at me. "I DON'T LIKE THE POTTY!!" I’m trying to encourage him to sit on the potty/toilet when he's in a better mood just to introduce it to him but to no avail.
My friends say that he'll tell me when he's ready but I’m getting sick of him not wanting to be clean or acknowledging the fact that he is sat in a huge poo. Could it be a sensory thing?? Liking the warmth of the poo etc. Is it been my fault for starting PT this late ? Anybody else had this trouble????