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how can i sort him out? PLEASE HELP
Hi all im currently 25 weeks preg with 3rd child i aready have a girl who is 2 and boy who is 4 who started school in september and everyday without fail im getting pulled into the school coz he has misbehaved for example he kicked one of the teachers today and took his shoes off and was lashing them round the class. he is like this at home 24/7 aswell and most of the time i REALLY feel like killing him and i mean killing him but has anyone got any good ideas how i can knock this behaver out of him i tryed doing a sticker chart where is he is good everyday he gets a star and if he is good for 5 days in school he gets a treat at the end of week but it dont seem to be working. i tryed putting him in his room but that dont work and its driving me mad now so if anyone can HELP me please xxx
[Modified by: sammy07xx on 05 March 2007 16:09:08 ]
[Modified by: sammy07xx on 05 March 2007 16:09:08 ]
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The teachers in his school are also conserned about him and have arange for someone to come into school on the 23rd march to see him alone with me so hopeful i may get some answers from that figers crossed.
maybe if you could email me some stuff anita that would be very helpful at less i can get a bit of a head start if he dose happen to have somethink like adhd
If it's only just been since september then it sounds like it could be an anxiety problem or that he feels he's not getting enough attention.
anxious of the things being asked of him at school perhaps? or
Like.... big school lots of children in his class and then at home lots of people. The only way he's getting attention whether it's good or bad is to misbehave?
I know he's only four but kids are really clever these days try talking to him say things like.... I was really worried today i nearly got lost.... Do you ever get worried? or a lady bumped into me today do you know how it made me feel? if you hurt someone at school how do you think that would make them feel?
I know it sounds like bunkum and head shrinking stuff but it may work and you might get to the bottom of why he's behaving like that maybe theres an underlying problem at school he doesn't feel he's able to talk about? Hope i haven't waffled to much and i hope this helps good luck