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I have a boy 4 in Feb and i am desperate for another one ever since he turned 2. I fell pregnant earlier this year and mis carried at 11 weeks. When i was near the end of my first pregnancy i came down with pre eclampsia and had a rough time and the little one had a lot of probs needless to say he is a very bright healthy boy. With all this that happened my husband came down with depression and has just nicely in Jan this year come out of it. When i fell pregnant he was worried and had just come to terms with it when i lost the baby. I would like to have another one but he says he cant go through all this again and therefore doesnt want anymore children. This has started to come between us and i dont know what to do. I feel that life goes on and lots of people go through the same and go on to have healthy pregnancys and children but he seems determined. Am i been selfish, what would you do please help cos its driving me insane.
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I'm sure that with a mc behind you and your husband's depression, you would be very closely monitored if you were pregnant again and would get early scans. Do you think that would help you oh? It might give him a bit of reassurance.
I like the idea of writing down your feelings in a letter to him, it might help clarify things in your own mind as well.