Should we just go for it?
Hi everyone.
Max is now 14 months old and I'm starting to think about having another baby. We'll be moving to a bigger place next month, and it also means we'll have a lot more money than we have at the moment.
But when I really think about it, I think that maybe I won't be able to cope, or we won't have enough money, or they'll fight all the time etc etc. But if I wait until we're in the perfect situation and everything's ready,. we'll be about 70 before we can do anything!
Should we just go for it, and muddle through?
My OH is 38 this year and I'm worried he might not be fertile for much longer! :roll: lol
Max is now 14 months old and I'm starting to think about having another baby. We'll be moving to a bigger place next month, and it also means we'll have a lot more money than we have at the moment.
But when I really think about it, I think that maybe I won't be able to cope, or we won't have enough money, or they'll fight all the time etc etc. But if I wait until we're in the perfect situation and everything's ready,. we'll be about 70 before we can do anything!
Should we just go for it, and muddle through?
My OH is 38 this year and I'm worried he might not be fertile for much longer! :roll: lol
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Good luck!
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If you want it go for it. I am due baby number 2 in 3 months time and there will be 18months between my 2. I wanted a small age gap but once I fell I started to worry about how I would cope, money etc. But we have reciently moved and now have more money (well till baby arrives that is, LoL). My OH is 39 and he has said no to any more coz of his age. He is worried that people will think its Grandad comming to pick the kids up from school LoL. Bless him. This will be his 4th child.
I don't think there is a good time of life to have a child unless you are millionair that doesn't do anything. You will find away of coping, we all do.
Good luck if you go for it.
Kerry, Freya and Pink Bump (25+5)
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i look at it this way,i could always come up with 101 reasons why not to have another 1,money,time,etc,etc but at the end of they day I and Scott really want another,and we have stacks more love to give and thats all that matters x x
I've also talked to a few people and everyone seems to say the same thing; if it feels right and makes sense for our life, then go for it!
So we are!
I bought some folic acid and have started them, and we aer just going for it (TMI?) lol
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Kerry, Freya and Pink Bump
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I saw a woman today who had a little boy, about 2, and she was quite heavily pregnant and she just looked so stressed out! It made me think a bit. But I know its going to be hard work, and thats what makes it so rewarding!
The trouble is, I've opened the "broody gate" now and its impossible to close! I want a baby xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx