Not this month girls!!

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• Critters-Mum-Claire21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:05PM

  OH Gayle, I'm so so so sorry. I was as convinced as you were honey. I so know how bad you are feeling and there is nothing to say except try and keep your chin up and hope you feel better soon, Lots and lots of love, claire xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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• han21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:07PM

  oh im so sorry 2 hear ur news it must be truly heartbreaking for u, and so many of u who are trying. I dont really know what to say except that my heart goes out to u and i really do hope that it happens 4 u this month.......im sending loads of pregnancy vibes ur way gayle. Im just so saddened to hear u even had the symptoms then af turned up, im really sorry. Best of luck this month my fingers,toes legs everything is crossed for u!!!! Luv hannah xx take care of urself

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 14, 2007 2:08PM

  thanks claire,im so upset,i cant stop crying.this is so hard.i know i will feel much better tmrw though. cheers hun xx

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• Critters-Mum-Claire21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:14PM

  Listen, don't be brave just fucking cry - sometimes it does make you feel better. No one is going to pat you on the back for dealing with it in silence or being brave and only you know how bad you feel. At least your oh is being so supportive which is a massive benefit. I am really thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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• Critters-Mum-Claire21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:16PM

  Meant to say like you said - at least you gave it your best shot - so to speak, there is nothing worse than not having enough sex and then being devastated when it doesn't happen as you almost feel to blame. Loads of love xxxx

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 14, 2007 2:19PM

  thanks hannah thats really sweet. you're right claire it is good to cry. man i need chocolate!!! ive got a big easter egg in the fridge and a bottle of wine.im going to demolish the lot tonight!!! xx

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• Critters-Mum-Claire21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:23PM

  Do it - and send the oh out for some more supplies. xxxxxx

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 14, 2007 2:23PM

  exactly claire,thats what i said to oh when he apologised.we were both right up for the challenge and neither of us is to blame. xx

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 14, 2007 2:23PM

  lol claire xx

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• Critters-Mum-Claire21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:25PM

  Apologised? MARRY THAT MAN - QUICK!!!I used to punish my husband - not literaly I'm not that bad, but when I got a negative because I was so desperate and he hated the pressure - quite rightly but i would sulk for days if I thought I had missed my chance, and then when I would get a neg, it was awful. At least you are united xxxx

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• rubysmum1

  Apr 14, 2007 2:26PM

  hi gayle hun im so sorry its been a real crap month
  but hopefully next month will be our monthxxxxx
  
  enjoy your chocolate and your wine and look forward to making january babies
  
  love and hugs
  leighxxx

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• blueybluey

  Apr 14, 2007 2:28PM

  Hi Gayle, really sorry hun. Get a takeaway and watch a DVD. I know that wont make it better but still pamper yourself. Thinking of you x x x

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• Critters-Mum-Claire21

  Apr 14, 2007 2:30PM

  just read that back - i don't mean quite rightly i would sulk - I meant quite rightly he didn't like the pressure. Chin up gayle an stuff your face with chocolate!!!!! xxx

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 14, 2007 2:36PM

  claire you're so funny.thanks leigh,yep 2008 baby here we go.ive got a 2004 baby,so that will keep it even lol!! thanks bluey,hope you are looking after yourself xx

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• George35

  Apr 14, 2007 2:45PM

  Hi Gayle, I'm so sorry to hear that your af arrived. I totally understand how you feel & have personally just declared it wine o'clock. Drinking to you (I don't have an Easter egg sadly as my oh did not buy me one!!!) and here is to lots of January babies. Take care Gayle... it will happen, probably when you least expect it to. Love George, xxx

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 14, 2007 3:08PM

  thanks George,ive got my wine,so cheers to you too!! no easter egg???? thats tragic hun!! xx

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• Libragirl

  Apr 15, 2007 4:38AM

  Hi gayle, so sorry to hear it turned up, hope your feeling abit better this morning. day 2 is always better than day 1. I think a 2008 baby would go lovely with a 2004 baby. Try not to blame yourselves unfortunately I think this is one expereince that you have no real control just go with it, it will happen and probably when you and the rest of us least expect it. I'm 11+ weeks now and the month I concieved we argued didn't speak for over a week so definetly didn't do anything to ttc plus went to stay with his sister for 4 days. We must of had sex about 10 times if that believe me we were already working out af and poss ov dates!! Good luck to you gayle, I've never sent babydust before but I'm sending it special delivery.

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• GAYLE1979

  Apr 15, 2007 4:44AM

  hi lisa how are you? hope its all going well.thanks for your support,i do feel alot better today.thanks for the babydust xx

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• lilypingu

  Apr 15, 2007 4:50AM

  Hi Gayle- just got on to the forum and found your post- I'm so sorry to hear tha af has arrived, I was really hoping you would join me this month Glad to hear you are opening up the wine and are feeling better. Keeping my fingers crossed for you- only another 16 days or so and then you can start trying again and those days will go by quickly!
  Keep going you can do it!!! xxxxx

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• Libragirl

  Apr 15, 2007 4:55AM

  Hi I'm doing ok, I've had a rough couple of weeks but trying not to dwell. Pregnancy wise I'm feeling good, I'm actually starting to loss the symptoms which I know is normal but it doesn't feel right for boobs not to be sore and not to feel sick. But I've got a little bump so I suppose outwardly look pg (or like I've eaten to much!). Glad your feeling better today and you now know your cycle pattern is pretty regular, what have you got planned for this months ttc (i.e temp, ov sticks?) If you are consistent each month with the same pattern it could take some of the pressure off you and o/h(unless he's enjoying the attention!!!) Lisa xxx

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