tentatively saying Hi- again
AcademiaGirl
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Hi there
I'm sneaking into ttc though offically not trying right now if that makes sense...
Intro time- I've a gorgeous little girl, Lorelei, who is 14 months and unfortunately I lost a little boy, Casey, in Dec 09 (3 days after dd's 1st b'day ) when i was 18 wks. At the time I said ti hubby I didn't want to try for another year but once the hormones settled I suggested maybe revising to 6 months and then few weeks ago I suggested maybe revising to now
Dude was grand to try again in June but not so sure about now however he has agreed to discuss it when we're on holiday in 3 weeks. Hoping he's going to agree to sooner rather than later but either way I thought I'd introduce myself as be ttc soon...
I'm still heartbroken about my little boy but our reasons for having him are still there- we wanted another baby and to have our kids close in age. I'll always be sad about losing him but really do want another baby and I feel that I've given it enough thought that I want another not to replace the baby I lost but as a sibling to our daughter and a new addition to our wee family.
Anyway, thought i'd say Hi as I'm forever lurking and didn't want to start replying to posts in case you all thought i was a random weirdo
Looking forward to getting to know you all,
Rosa x
I'm sneaking into ttc though offically not trying right now if that makes sense...
Intro time- I've a gorgeous little girl, Lorelei, who is 14 months and unfortunately I lost a little boy, Casey, in Dec 09 (3 days after dd's 1st b'day ) when i was 18 wks. At the time I said ti hubby I didn't want to try for another year but once the hormones settled I suggested maybe revising to 6 months and then few weeks ago I suggested maybe revising to now
Dude was grand to try again in June but not so sure about now however he has agreed to discuss it when we're on holiday in 3 weeks. Hoping he's going to agree to sooner rather than later but either way I thought I'd introduce myself as be ttc soon...
I'm still heartbroken about my little boy but our reasons for having him are still there- we wanted another baby and to have our kids close in age. I'll always be sad about losing him but really do want another baby and I feel that I've given it enough thought that I want another not to replace the baby I lost but as a sibling to our daughter and a new addition to our wee family.
Anyway, thought i'd say Hi as I'm forever lurking and didn't want to start replying to posts in case you all thought i was a random weirdo
Looking forward to getting to know you all,
Rosa x
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chaxxx
I think he is a little nervous but what happened lo was one to one in a million things so shouldn't happen again (though can never be totally certain I guess) but also he wants me to ready physically and mentally and if we had a bfp in next month or two it would me giving birth for 3rd time in 2 years! But I believe our bodies are amazing things and if it wasn't ready then I'll be hanging about this forum for a while