Have to get this off my chest!!
Hiya ladies.
Sorry but i have to get this off my chest,since ttc i've discovered 1 thing,Doctors treat ttc women and Pregnant Ladies like Freaks.
I'm sorry if this offends anyone and i'm sure there must be good doctors (understanding)about but from my own experance and reading through the boards it seems like there few and far between!!
Things DO go wrong in pregnancy especially early on so i've discovered and i think the way some of us have been treated is bloody disgusting,it does feellike alot of us get fobbed off,Sorry to bring a downer Ladies but i'm especially feeling for Katyjo right now and others who have had/having ectopics and no one seems to be listening to them!!And its so friggin dangerous,why is it that we are getting treated like this??
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Sorry but i have to get this off my chest,since ttc i've discovered 1 thing,Doctors treat ttc women and Pregnant Ladies like Freaks.
I'm sorry if this offends anyone and i'm sure there must be good doctors (understanding)about but from my own experance and reading through the boards it seems like there few and far between!!
Things DO go wrong in pregnancy especially early on so i've discovered and i think the way some of us have been treated is bloody disgusting,it does feellike alot of us get fobbed off,Sorry to bring a downer Ladies but i'm especially feeling for Katyjo right now and others who have had/having ectopics and no one seems to be listening to them!!And its so friggin dangerous,why is it that we are getting treated like this??
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I cannot understand how ladies on here who may have ectopic are not scanned??? When they had a tiny fear that my first was ectopic (not even a big risk - all evidence pointed to just hormones still left in system, had already MC'ed) they admitted me right away and nearly took me to theatre there and then. Like you said, it's such a big risk and not something to be slack about...
I really feel for all the girls here who don't have supportive medical professionals around them because seeing the ones I did really helped me through this awful time.
~ NN xx
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Saying that, I found my experience with doc's during my ectopic absolutely fine. GP got me straight in with EPU next morning when I saw her with bleeding. I don't know how it would have worked out if I hadn't rushed to A & E the next evening in agony, but I don't feel like they put me in any danger and I don't feel like I was looked down at or anything
One thing I found funny was when I was in A & E was that I had to ask the male doctor for a sanitary towel, and he put his head town and sent a female nurse in to ask me what I wanted, rather than tell her himself what I had asked for! Men!
Something I would have changed was that when I was scanned I had to go to the same unit with all the happily PG women, having their 12 and 20 week scanned. I sat in my wheelchair feeling very bitter at all of their smiling faces