Sulking :cry:
Well i just went to get a bath and did a little check and found EWCM, i have also been having OV pains which i am hoping is a good sign so i came running out naked (i apologize for this bit) to show OH that my CM stretched i got the weirdest look ever until i realised what i had done. I was soooo happy.
So i thought tonight i could BD, put my feet up and pray the little spermies make there way to an egg that may be there tomorrow.
Soooo, i got out of the bath and saw OH was asleep on the sofa which is NOT a good sign, so i woke him up and asked him if we could have sex cause i know he is tired and i got a shrug then a maybe which in his language is a big fat no!!!!!!
I am on the verge of tears, why does he want to try for a baby but then not do the only thing he needs to do to conceive said baby?????
We did have sex last night and i put my legs up for half hour while watching two pints and then i got up and turned the TV off and then about 1am went to the toilet so i don't think my chances would have been great.
The thing is if i wake him now to explain that we need to BD if we want a Xmas bean then he will just be stroppy and it will then be like a chore and then we will fall out and i will get a text in the morning saying "sorry babe, i was tired last night, it will be ok" like i usually do!!!
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So i thought tonight i could BD, put my feet up and pray the little spermies make there way to an egg that may be there tomorrow.
Soooo, i got out of the bath and saw OH was asleep on the sofa which is NOT a good sign, so i woke him up and asked him if we could have sex cause i know he is tired and i got a shrug then a maybe which in his language is a big fat no!!!!!!
I am on the verge of tears, why does he want to try for a baby but then not do the only thing he needs to do to conceive said baby?????
We did have sex last night and i put my legs up for half hour while watching two pints and then i got up and turned the TV off and then about 1am went to the toilet so i don't think my chances would have been great.
The thing is if i wake him now to explain that we need to BD if we want a Xmas bean then he will just be stroppy and it will then be like a chore and then we will fall out and i will get a text in the morning saying "sorry babe, i was tired last night, it will be ok" like i usually do!!!
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Or let him go to bed and sleep for an hour then wake him up nicely for a bit of BD'ing. It'd be like middle of the night sex my fave x
[Modified by: BroodyBeth on December 16, 2009 08:05 PM]
Am in my 1ww now and its hell on earth, only month 1 but am SS like mad and I actually feel like I am chanting in my head BFP BFP BFP....
How are you hun? x
Maybe it's not such a good idea to give your OH so much information? That's a lot of pressure for a guy! Maybe next time you have ov signs, don't tell OH but just seduce him instead without mentioning ttc?
And I know it's difficult but stressing so much probably isn't helping either...
SD i really hope you get that Xmas bean, i am feeling ok, just a bit upset really. I know that it happens when it happens but then i have to think if OH wants to keep putting off sex then i will never get pregnant. But when we have "the talk" about it he begs me to keep trying and promises he will do all he can!!! xxx
Can't you just erm... sort him out by hand and just finish in the way that makes babies. Sorry I really couldn't think of a nicer way to put that x