Just been told some news.....

My good friend Kate who I work with has just told me she is 5 weeks preg

K xx

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  • Thats gr8 news, does she know you are ttc, maybe she can give us some tips?
  • It's a bit of jealousy mixed in with the happiness, if you're anything like me! xx

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  • Yeah she knows, I am soooo over the moon for her she had a MC in March last year and has been trying for 7 months. The thing is and this is going to sound soooo nasty is that I did feel like somebody kicked me int he gut when she first said it.

    I know that is soooo awful of me as she is a really lovely person and I truly could not be happier for her but I felt that way.

    K xxx

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  • That's great news for your friend but if you're anything like I was when I was ttc you'll be feeling very jealous right now!

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  • It's normal k-lou, don't feel bad. xx

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  • I do though she has been trying so much longer than me and gone through a MC and i am sitting here thinking i wushed it was me.

    k xx

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  • You are still happy for her, and would never tell her you are envious. So you are still being a good friend. xx

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  • Don't worry k-lou. I would be jealous too. In fact, I work in HR so I produce reports on maternity figures etc and everytime we get a new Matb1 form I feel like having a tantrum that everyone else seems to be able to do it except me. Feels like the whole world is pg apart from you sometimes doesn't it!
  • Don't feel bad - I get terribly jealous when people tell me their pregnant - it's natural xx
  • Yeah it does LOL I am sooo pleased for her though she really is a wonderful person and like I said been trying for 7 months. I am worried though as she has PCOS and her lumps are huge so she said. They told her when she went for her scan months ago that there was not much space for a baby to grown as most of her lining had some and so now i am praying it all works out well for her.

    K x

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  • K-lou - DO NOT FEEL BAD!! I would be incredibly jealous too!!. Actually I am of my cousin!! She is 18 years old and 5mths PG 'by accident'. and I am soo jealous!! I am really happy for her though and would not say anything!! Just like you!! I think it is perfectly normal when you want something so bad!!

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  • OMG my 18 year old cousin is 5 months preg also and also by mistake!!! How werid is that?? She has just been told she is having a girl. I was a little upset when i heard about that as i really wanted to be the first granchild in the family to have a baby, i am the oldest.

    I guess its a little different with Kate as well as now i will be seeing her every single day you know though i am sooo exciting for her and just to see how happy she is, she is walking around with such a whole smile on her face. Nobody kows as work yet till she is over the 12 weeks mark.

    k XX
  • That IS weird!! Mine is having a boy!! I can see why you are upset - I am in a different position going by siblings as I am the youngest, and when it happens will be the 2nd one out of 3! Our eldest was 1st though.

    It will happen for you though babe - and hopefully for both of us at similar times so we can swop stories!! xx

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  • Yeah i know I tell myself all the time some women have been waiting years so i need to just shut up and get on with it but i am not very good and waiting in fact I am rubbish and I worry about everything going you know so it all plays on my mind.

    K xx

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  • I wouldn't say you worry with all your CM q's - lol!! It is because we are unsure what is going on so we question EVERYTHING!! I do the same and am forever browsing the search engines for stuff!!
  • I wouldn't say you worry with all your CM q's - lol!! It is because we are unsure what is going on so we question EVERYTHING!! I do the same and am forever browsing the search engines for stuff!!
  • LOL oh man i need to stop talking about it. The thing is I can get two differnt kinds in one day and so I never know where i am? Plus i have never in my life looked at it before so I am not sure what means what you know.

    K xx

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  • K-Lou - I wouldn't worry about the jealousy. Honestly, the person who has just told you has no doubt felt exactly how you feel all the time she was ttc and heard other people were pg.

    None of us will forget that mix of jealousy that someone else is pg; happiness for them; and hope that if they've had a bfp, so will we. I bet she knows exactly how you're feeling if she knows that you are ttc!

    I get the green eyed monster thing all the time. Even today in the shop, a girl was saying on her phone in the queue that she was so exhausted that she could cry because her baby had colic and wouldn't stop crying. I even felt jealous of her!

    C'mon ladies - PMA. The more we hear about people conceiving, the more hope there is for us! x
  • Ok here is more PMA *-*-*-*-*-*-*-* to all your girls who need it and a big bag for me as wellimage

    K xx

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