Anyone experienced this??

I came off the pill in May 09. I have always had a low sex drive but since coming off the pill I am feeling better and my drive does seem to have improved. Problem is we had sex infrequently whilst I was on the pill and he rarely ejaculated. Now we both feel it is time for a baby and the ejaculation is causing a problem again. There is no problem getting an erection and keeping it but without the end result!! It's so upsetting. I did find I was getting upset after each time of trying which just ended up putting too much pressure on him. I just do not know what to do next. Anyone else experiencing this at all??