BD - Tips to share??

Shoegal_82 · May 6, 2010 5:18PM

Hi,

I shall be officially joining this forum as of tomorrow. I have been nosing about for a week or so. I was just wondering if you had any tips you might want to share? Like lying still after BD for 15 minutes is it? Or best position etc xx

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jay78andshrimp · May 6, 2010 4:37PM

OK Shoegal there is definately something you need to learn from the off and that is..........
after BDing lay there with a pillow under your bum for at least 20 minutes BUT make sure you use HUBBY's pillow as otherwise you end up with the wet patch again! hehe

Oh and try to stick to missionary and maybe doggy positions to help the swimmers stay in. If youre on top then the swimmers will have less chance of getting to your cervix. In other words you need to BD in positions where DH will release his spermies close to your cervix.
Check out the great sperm race on youtube. Its really good! xx
Hope that all helps xx

foxjenz · May 6, 2010 4:43PM

I herd that the missionary was good for concieving a girl because off where the sperm enter is beter for the girl sperm...
that about all i know! lol
xjen

Shoegal_82 · May 6, 2010 4:44PM

Thanks Jay78 for replying. I am pleased as I much prefer the missionary position, always feel like a piece of meat in the doggy position. Oh yes don't worry we shall use his side of the bed and his pillow ha! Thank you again! xx

grudie · May 6, 2010 4:47PM

the less than favourble in my house ie doggy lol is good and missionary,pillow under mum when doing the deed also,dont get up too quick as what goes up must come down lol

but mostly relax and enjpy yourself xx

Shoegal_82 · May 6, 2010 5:09PM

I herd that the missionary was good for concieving a girl because off where the sperm enter is beter for the girl sperm...
that about all i know! lol
xjen

Ooh that is good to know ha!

Shoegal_82 · May 6, 2010 5:13PM

Grudie - Yep that is the nasty bit when it starts to come back out. Only problem being is I always need a wee after. Will lie with a pillow under my bum for 20 minutes though. I made the mistake of mentioning that some people get their partners to grab their ankles to my OH - watch him want to try it ha. I suppose there is no harm

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foxjenz · May 6, 2010 5:17PM

Shoegal82- Ha ha thats so true! i always need a wee after and i always wanna wash my hands! lol

princessAntonia · May 6, 2010 5:18PM

i know what u mean about needing a wee straight after, it drives me mad having to lie there, cold and dying for a wee! lol xxx good luck ttc hun xx

BD - Tips to share??

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