Wanted to say hi!!
I have been a member of this site since last year when I fell pregnant with my lo (now 18 weeks) so never came onto the ttc forum until last few weeks.
I have been gatecrashing on a daily basis for the simple reason that I am thinking about ttc no.4! I already have Brandon 6, Lily 3, and Reuben 18 wks and although he was supposed to be my last I am feeling pretty desperate for another. Part of me is just unsure whether I would be doing the right thing.
We live quite a simple life so money is not really an issue, my oh wants another so thats not a problem either so I don't know why I am holding back. I think about the pros and cons practically 24/7- even thinking about names!!
I have been gatecrashing on a daily basis for the simple reason that I am thinking about ttc no.4! I already have Brandon 6, Lily 3, and Reuben 18 wks and although he was supposed to be my last I am feeling pretty desperate for another. Part of me is just unsure whether I would be doing the right thing.
We live quite a simple life so money is not really an issue, my oh wants another so thats not a problem either so I don't know why I am holding back. I think about the pros and cons practically 24/7- even thinking about names!!
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Thanks also for the welcome SLOW- I need to be 100% sure before I ttc coz last time I fell pregnant the week after I came off the pill, so if I do decide to try again I shouldn't imagine I will be hanging around too long lol.
I think if you think about it too much you get too analytical, it's best to not think about it and just go for it. If we're lucky enough to make another baby it will complete our family. i'm sure my son would love us to have a baby as well, he wants a brother AND a sister though (and a rabbit and a dog haha!) It's still a bit scary though. xx
I was VERY worried when pregnant with my 4 yo that my son would be jealous but he absolutely adored her, he was so protective and kind to her. They still have a very close bond with each other which is lovely.
Again when I fell pregnant with Reuben- now 18 weeks I was worried about jealousy from Lily (4), at first she ignored the baby, then she was a little jealous but now that she over that stage she adores her baby brother.
Both of my older children are begging me for another sibling-Lily really wants a sister and I would LOVE to give her one!
Don't worry- no.2 and 3 just slot in go for it!!