Don't worry Jay....I have sneaking suspicion that I am just behind you with AF. Would be way too good to be true if she didn't rear her ugly head. I am bracing myself for the usual appearance tomorrow ( I use pre seed and have done for the last three months. I don't know if it makes much difference but some people swear by it. TMI ALERT...I find it a bit squelchy at times!;\)
Don't worry Jay....I have sneaking suspicion that I am just behind you with AF. Would be way too good to be true if she didn't rear her ugly head. I am bracing myself for the usual appearance tomorrow ( I use pre seed and have done for the last three months. I don't know if it makes much difference but some people swear by it. TMI ALERT...I find it a bit squelchy at times!;\)
HA Now thats made me smile for the first time since she arrived you saying its a bit squelchy at times! hehe Well i suppose it doesnt hurt to try things! Just watching last nights Fringe and now perving over Joshua Jackson mm mmm mmm mm mmmmm
I could be coming back suspected chem, lines arent getting any stronger, havent had a positive cbd yet, started spotting this morning and my urine test from docs came back negative even tho it was 25 m/lu so confused right now!!
Just thought I would update you, miss you all and I have my fingers crossed you all get some good news soon.
BOB hope you are ok hunnie, Jay - sorry to hear about the witch crash landing and ruining the party.
Frecks - looks like you could still be in with a chance good luck will keep my fingers crossed for you
SD - wait until the weekend and then do a cbd with fmu. May be stronger by then? x Hoping you dont come back to us but if you do then of course you are always more than welcome xxxxxxxxx
Fingers crossed for you SD. Ditto what Jay says but hopefully you won't be back! )
My (.)(.) are now not as tender as they were so I suspect the witch is right around the corner as this is what happens every month before she strikes. I am so sick of this rubbish now. If some people can get pregnant through a tiny speck tear in a condom, standing up whilst practically jigging a reel or even whilst on pill why are we having such a rough time of it? I have three 16 yr old kids in school pregnant at the moment who probably conceived whilst off their boobies on lambrini or tripping on E!!! We are even afraid to drink real tea or coffee in excess or sip a few G&Ts in case we ruin our conception chances. A girl I know at home was so careless about contraception that she fell pregnant when she was 20 - wasn't sure of the father, came to England for an abortion, fell pregnant again three months later with a different guy - had to have a DNA test to find out who the Dad was. She didn't know she was pregnant until she was 6 months gone (partied hard all the time)and the lad she said was the Dad and who was paying for the child and living with her turned out not to be the Dad at all. He even witnessed the birth. So unfair. Rant over! AF defo on way
Hi Girls - missed you all today - just sat at work catching up now! I have had the day from hell and am about to hit 11 hours in the office WTF!!! That's what you get for taking 7 days off!
Ok so:
Jay - I'm so sorry AF showed up hun but at least I have a buddy still on TTC - evil thoughts I know ) But frecks is going to get hers and I'll be on my own all wrinkled and lonely
Frecks - as I said on my other post God (and I'm not religious but I like to think of it this way) Is waiting to give us that super special baby and only the best will do for us that's why we have to wait a bit hun - we don't want any old crap like those slappers get handed! (probably very non PC but there you go)
Oh SD - try not to worry yet hun it can take 3 days for your hcg to double and spotting is very common early on as you know from being on here - also the hpt's are SO variable you cannot rely on a line getting darker on an hpt at all they are not quantative so they only give you that yes/no answer, the darkness of the line is not accurate enough on an hpt hun especially with different urine concentrations. Did they take a blood sample to check?
OK onto the good stuff - pre-seed is FABULOUS!!!!!! I am one of the ones that swears by it - when you're bding everyday it takes the -hassle' out of getting 'ready' and my dh loves the feel of it (actually so do it) get's him all going and makes the whole process quicker - very useful when you're trying to knock one out on a work night Also using pre-seed the 2 months that I did got me my 2 bfp's - yes both times Frecks I only fill the syringe to 1.5 - 2 - maybe you're using a little much? Maybe it's 'casue I'm Sophia that I love it so much
Jay I am allowed to bd this month I'm just not allowed to get knocked up again - doc needs me to take a break so he can do the tests and give my teflon uterus a rest not fair, but understood......
Right well I was going to be a good girl and go home and run on the treadmill but I am exhausted and need a glass of wine to take all my stresses away
I'm off home now - talk to you all soon - I'll try and catch up with you sooner tomorrow.
Wouldn't be too sure about that BOB...15dpo and tested this morning with FR and.......BIG STUPID Negative. The witch is really playing games. Temp dropped too. AF is defo due today at the latest so if she doesn't turn up I will be very annoyed :evil:
Think I may be using too much Preseed. Sometimes it sounds like someone squelching around in a welly in a muddy field which doesn't create the sexy atmosphere we are going for!
Right ok girls im all prepared for this month Took my temperature this morning which was 97.4, just ordered me some preseed which should hopefully arrive tomorrow or saturday. Even though ive already got opks i paid the extra for 5 ov sitcks and 5 pg tests. Thought might aswell go the whole hog aye! Think i might try reflexology too and....sod it buy us some porn too ha ha
Frecks sounds like you should bding at glastonbury! ha ha Sorry about the BFN but if she hasnt turned up yet then you never know!! Its not over til the fat ugly witch shows her face!! Hows your back anyway? xx
BOB - i too had a glass of wine last night! OK OK i lied make that a bottle but hey im allowed. I suppose in a good way at least i can drink at this wedding were going to on saturday and wont be stuck in limbo!
Hi Jay - yeah me too I'm afraid one glass didn't cut it! I had 3 rather large glasses which amounted to about 3/4 of a bottle!
So Jay I thought GG's was your porn
Frecks - Sorry to say it hun but looking at your chart I think you might be right, your temp did dip today so you will probably see af today or tomorrow hun - yeah for me I still have another cycle buddy! Sorry that's selfish I know )
So I just found out that one of the girls I work with is pg - she is due right around the time I would have been with my last pg - bloody hell
Well girls.....move over in the bed and make room for me! You're not getting rid of me that quick. ) Bloody evil ugly conniving witch got me on the way to work. She did it in style too...I was doubled over the steering wheel. Well at least I know that my LP is always bang on 14 days. I am numb, fuming, upset, angry and disappointed all at once. Rang OH but the poor chap doesn't know what to say. Don't think he really understands how upsetting it is to know that you are facing yet another month of hoping. BIg glass of wine on the way for me tonight and I don't care how big my bum gets. My back is much better now Jay. Have lumbar scan on Wednesday but I feel a million times better. Had "return to work" interview today and he had to ask if I was pregnant. I nearly cried when I said no. Poor man nearly got the lowdown on how hard ttc is!!!
he he BOB yeah GG usually is our porn but think i may need to step it up a notch. Maybe i'll go for the spin off of the GG and go for the golden palace? ha ha No wine left in the house so am thinking of having a vodka tonight. Gonna make sure that i get as much drinking in as possible before i get my BFP!! Had to go and make my appointment for smear earlier! yuk The nurse can only fit me in on the 21st June which is prob round about when im going to be oving and youre not supposed to have sex within 24 hours of a smear...hmmmmm maybe i'll change the appointment.
Freck - sorry to hear she got you - CD1 JUST SUCKS!!!!! I know men just dont get it do they nor do they know what to say half the time. Have some choc and a few glasses of wine and you will feel a bit better. Then get planning again tomorrow xx
Ah Frecks - big glass of wine it is then and jay get some more wine in will you! I can't believe you're out of wine!
Jay you need to move that appointment - are you crazy! You're doing the works now - you can't waste a night of bding right in the middle of your ov time.......
I'm sorry you didn't get your bfp Frecks - even though for my own selfish reasons I'm glad you're still here )
Right so girls let's get it together. How long are your cycles so we can plan when you start with the opk's this month - If I can't get pg - one of you better do it instead
Well my last cycle was from 14th May to 8th June with 9th June being CD1. I dont count 9th june as part of my previous cycle do i? So i guess i need to start using my opks on 18th june? Does that sound about right BOB? Preseed hasnt arrived yet but i left before the postman this morning so it could have arrived (maybe i should have waited in for him and asked him to give it a try with me!!!) hahahahahahahaha just kidding girls xx Definaterly going to move my appointment!! Like you say BOB i dont want to waste any time. Ive already got another appointment on Monday for my hep a booster (had to have first lot last year when we went to thailand for our honeymoon) so will either ask if they can do then, providing i have completely finished AF or just rebook.
So Frecks how are you today pet? Do you feel any better than yesterday?
Yes jay that's right cd1 is June 9th so with a 26 days cycle I would start your opk's cd10 so on the 18th - also you should only need to use them once a day and in the afternoon is better as that's when you get the LH rise - the opposite of hpt's!
He's not bad actually and he's got a twin brother who is also a postie in the village where i live. 2 for the price of 1 hmmm now theres a thought! crack open the preseed! ha hahahahahaha
Hey girls....I'm feeling better today. Banging headache though. CD1 sucks big time but now I'm back in planning mode and full of new hope for this month.
CD1 for me was June 10th but I have ov pretty randomly so I should ov between 20th and 24th. I'm armed this month with preseed, CBFM, temping and fertility friend so don't think I can do much more to optimise our chances. OH has been warned that he is to be ready for some serious action this month. LPis 14 days so I guess AF should be due earliest 4th and latest 9th.
I'm on my own tonight. OH out with the boys. Have a bottle of wine chilling and I might actually watch the footy. World Cup BBQ tomorrow so hope the weather is nice!
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I use pre seed and have done for the last three months. I don't know if it makes much difference but some people swear by it. TMI ALERT...I find it a bit squelchy at times!;\)
I use pre seed and have done for the last three months. I don't know if it makes much difference but some people swear by it. TMI ALERT...I find it a bit squelchy at times!;\)
Well i suppose it doesnt hurt to try things!
Just watching last nights Fringe and now perving over Joshua Jackson mm mmm mmm mm mmmmm
I could be coming back suspected chem, lines arent getting any stronger, havent had a positive cbd yet, started spotting this morning and my urine test from docs came back negative even tho it was 25 m/lu so confused right now!!
Just thought I would update you, miss you all and I have my fingers crossed you all get some good news soon.
BOB hope you are ok hunnie, Jay - sorry to hear about the witch crash landing and ruining the party.
Frecks - looks like you could still be in with a chance good luck will keep my fingers crossed for you
xxx
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My (.)(.) are now not as tender as they were so I suspect the witch is right around the corner as this is what happens every month before she strikes. I am so sick of this rubbish now. If some people can get pregnant through a tiny speck tear in a condom, standing up whilst practically jigging a reel or even whilst on pill why are we having such a rough time of it? I have three 16 yr old kids in school pregnant at the moment who probably conceived whilst off their boobies on lambrini or tripping on E!!! We are even afraid to drink real tea or coffee in excess or sip a few G&Ts in case we ruin our conception chances.
A girl I know at home was so careless about contraception that she fell pregnant when she was 20 - wasn't sure of the father, came to England for an abortion, fell pregnant again three months later with a different guy - had to have a DNA test to find out who the Dad was. She didn't know she was pregnant until she was 6 months gone (partied hard all the time)and the lad she said was the Dad and who was paying for the child and living with her turned out not to be the Dad at all. He even witnessed the birth. So unfair.
Rant over! AF defo on way
xxx
Ok so:
Jay - I'm so sorry AF showed up hun but at least I have a buddy still on TTC - evil thoughts I know
Frecks - as I said on my other post God (and I'm not religious but I like to think of it this way) Is waiting to give us that super special baby and only the best will do for us that's why we have to wait a bit hun - we don't want any old crap like those slappers get handed!
Oh SD - try not to worry yet hun it can take 3 days for your hcg to double and spotting is very common early on as you know from being on here - also the hpt's are SO variable you cannot rely on a line getting darker on an hpt at all they are not quantative so they only give you that yes/no answer, the darkness of the line is not accurate enough on an hpt hun especially with different urine concentrations. Did they take a blood sample to check?
OK onto the good stuff - pre-seed is FABULOUS!!!!!! I am one of the ones that swears by it - when you're bding everyday it takes the -hassle' out of getting 'ready' and my dh loves the feel of it (actually so do it) get's him all going and makes the whole process quicker - very useful when you're trying to knock one out on a work night
Jay I am allowed to bd this month I'm just not allowed to get knocked up again - doc needs me to take a break so he can do the tests and give my teflon uterus a rest
Right well I was going to be a good girl and go home and run on the treadmill but I am exhausted and need a glass of wine to take all my stresses away
I'm off home now - talk to you all soon - I'll try and catch up with you sooner tomorrow.
Think I may be using too much Preseed. Sometimes it sounds like someone squelching around in a welly in a muddy field which doesn't create the sexy atmosphere we are going for!
Have a good day girls
xxx
Took my temperature this morning which was 97.4, just ordered me some preseed which should hopefully arrive tomorrow or saturday. Even though ive already got opks i paid the extra for 5 ov sitcks and 5 pg tests. Thought might aswell go the whole hog aye! Think i might try reflexology too and....sod it buy us some porn too ha ha
Frecks sounds like you should bding at glastonbury! ha ha Sorry about the BFN but if she hasnt turned up yet then you never know!! Its not over til the fat ugly witch shows her face!!
Hows your back anyway? xx
BOB - i too had a glass of wine last night! OK OK i lied make that a bottle but hey im allowed. I suppose in a good way at least i can drink at this wedding were going to on saturday and wont be stuck in limbo!
So Jay I thought GG's was your porn
Frecks - Sorry to say it hun but looking at your chart I think you might be right, your temp did dip today so you will probably see af today or tomorrow hun - yeah for me I still have another cycle buddy! Sorry that's selfish I know
So I just found out that one of the girls I work with is pg - she is due right around the time I would have been with my last pg - bloody hell
Bloody evil ugly conniving witch got me on the way to work. She did it in style too...I was doubled over the steering wheel. Well at least I know that my LP is always bang on 14 days. I am numb, fuming, upset, angry and disappointed all at once. Rang OH but the poor chap doesn't know what to say. Don't think he really understands how upsetting it is to know that you are facing yet another month of hoping.
BIg glass of wine on the way for me tonight and I don't care how big my bum gets.
My back is much better now Jay. Have lumbar scan on Wednesday but I feel a million times better. Had "return to work" interview today and he had to ask if I was pregnant. I nearly cried when I said no. Poor man nearly got the lowdown on how hard ttc is!!!
xxx
No wine left in the house so am thinking of having a vodka tonight. Gonna make sure that i get as much drinking in as possible before i get my BFP!!
Had to go and make my appointment for smear earlier! yuk The nurse can only fit me in on the 21st June which is prob round about when im going to be oving and youre not supposed to have sex within 24 hours of a smear...hmmmmm maybe i'll change the appointment.
Freck - sorry to hear she got you - CD1 JUST SUCKS!!!!! I know men just dont get it do they nor do they know what to say half the time. Have some choc and a few glasses of wine and you will feel a bit better. Then get planning again tomorrow xx
We just gotta keep going girls xxxxxxxxxx
Jay you need to move that appointment - are you crazy! You're doing the works now - you can't waste a night of bding right in the middle of your ov time.......
I'm sorry you didn't get your bfp Frecks - even though for my own selfish reasons I'm glad you're still here
Right so girls let's get it together. How long are your cycles so we can plan when you start with the opk's this month - If I can't get pg - one of you better do it instead
So i guess i need to start using my opks on 18th june? Does that sound about right BOB?
Preseed hasnt arrived yet but i left before the postman this morning so it could have arrived (maybe i should have waited in for him and asked him to give it a try with me!!!) hahahahahahahaha just kidding girls xx
Definaterly going to move my appointment!! Like you say BOB i dont want to waste any time. Ive already got another appointment on Monday for my hep a booster (had to have first lot last year when we went to thailand for our honeymoon) so will either ask if they can do then, providing i have completely finished AF or just rebook.
So Frecks how are you today pet? Do you feel any better than yesterday?
Is your postman tasty then?
CD1 for me was June 10th but I have ov pretty randomly so I should ov between 20th and 24th. I'm armed this month with preseed, CBFM, temping and fertility friend so don't think I can do much more to optimise our chances. OH has been warned that he is to be ready for some serious action this month. LPis 14 days so I guess AF should be due earliest 4th and latest 9th.
I'm on my own tonight. OH out with the boys. Have a bottle of wine chilling and I might actually watch the footy. World Cup BBQ tomorrow so hope the weather is nice!
xxx