Please help !!! :-/ ttc cd56 and counting but neg tests
Hello
Just a quick one really as I need some advice...
been ttc for our first since about November now...let my body settle down after 6 years on the pill and had my withdrawal bleed in december (messed up my last pill pack so this was quite normal i think) in january after a 44 day cycle af came...then began using the Ov tests just to try and make it a bit simpler.. got a on cd35 of next cycle but then af came on cd46...went into next cycle still using the ov tests but no even up to cd42 still no sign of a so i gave up and thought i maybe had not ovulated that cycle and would wait for af to come...in the meantime still bding as normal.. and today on cd56 i have still not got af... i had been really good and thought well i will keep my fingers crossed but not test yet...however this morning i freaked out and just had to test... and it was negative...i somehow convinced myself that it might be wrong and that i should take another to be sure.. and so i took a second one this afternoon... still negative.. WHATS GOING ON?!?!
i dont get what is going on with my body at all :-/ is this normal? to have a 56 day cycle and still have no sign of anything either way? i normally get really crampy when af is on her way and i haven't really had that...all i have had is quite bad lower back pain when standing for any length of time...more so than normal.. but other than that no real symptoms of anything... please help or give your advice as i am in desperate need of some.. i have really tried to stay off here because i thought it would help me chill out about it all...but i just need to hear from some other people who i know are in the same boat as me...if you can help then thank you
xxx
Just a quick one really as I need some advice...
been ttc for our first since about November now...let my body settle down after 6 years on the pill and had my withdrawal bleed in december (messed up my last pill pack so this was quite normal i think) in january after a 44 day cycle af came...then began using the Ov tests just to try and make it a bit simpler.. got a on cd35 of next cycle but then af came on cd46...went into next cycle still using the ov tests but no even up to cd42 still no sign of a so i gave up and thought i maybe had not ovulated that cycle and would wait for af to come...in the meantime still bding as normal.. and today on cd56 i have still not got af... i had been really good and thought well i will keep my fingers crossed but not test yet...however this morning i freaked out and just had to test... and it was negative...i somehow convinced myself that it might be wrong and that i should take another to be sure.. and so i took a second one this afternoon... still negative.. WHATS GOING ON?!?!
i dont get what is going on with my body at all :-/ is this normal? to have a 56 day cycle and still have no sign of anything either way? i normally get really crampy when af is on her way and i haven't really had that...all i have had is quite bad lower back pain when standing for any length of time...more so than normal.. but other than that no real symptoms of anything... please help or give your advice as i am in desperate need of some.. i have really tried to stay off here because i thought it would help me chill out about it all...but i just need to hear from some other people who i know are in the same boat as me...if you can help then thank you
xxx
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Some of the ladies on the KWA thread may be able to help you more