Docs / Nurse?!

Hi I am finally gona raise the subject of going docs to checked out with my oh!! I am thinking of going first n then sending him as we r in separate docs. In my docs they r all male docs n i dont fancy discussing it with a male doc the first time as i no am gona b nervous enuf cos i hate the docs! There is a gemale nurse who i could see but am unsure whether she wud b able to help. Has anyone been to c a nurse rather than doc ?! X