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Confused and emotional
Hi everyone I'm new to baby expert. I wondered if you could give me some advise or just peace of mind because I honk I might be going mad! I have been TTC for a while now and am currently 6 days late and have taken 3 tests with negative results, I have lots of symptoms but don't know weather they are all in my head because I want it do much, to add to the confusing emotions I am currently feeling I have just found out a very close friend is pregnan obviously I am over the moon for them but it just seems to be happening to every one but me. I don't even know what I'm asking really I suppose I just feel a little alone and wondered if anyone else has gone through this and could perhaps tell me if there is hope this month or am I just really late on my period oh and am I going mad!? Thanks for listening Mrs D x
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i think everybody who plans a baby and is trying gets totally crazy and test mad. All i could think about was is it this month?? Totally convinced myself i was everytime and wasted so much money on tests but couldn't help it. I hate to say it but everytime the tests were right even though i was sure i was pregnant because all the symptoms were their.
As soon as i started saying thats it i give up and i stopped trying to plan it, it seemed to happen. i think the stress actually doesn't help. If its any consolation i think you should hang around your pregnant friend, i have heard that hormones can actually have an effect on people around you. Perhaps she could kick start things for you. Good luck!
Wow thats great news for you. Its always best to expect the worst then if you get a happy ending, it means so much more. Well done you! Now you and your friend can go through it together. x
How nicw is that, to have a sister to share it with.