need suggestions

I was supposed to have my af on the 28. I had a sharp pain in my lower abdominal a few days before. Started spotting on the 27 but only a light pink. After sex it's a bit more but then goes away not enough to wear panty liners during the day .I decided to check my cervix. It feels a bit soft but still light pink cm .Cramps a little still. Is this normal and could it be what I'm hoping. I just dont want to get my hopes up .Please help with suggestions