Please give me hope!!!

I need some uplifting insight please!! I am so worried I am being punished and will not be able to conceive a child with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Im concerned I am infertile because In feburary 2016 I was raped and contracted chlamydia from the rape and it was the  first time ive ever had an std, but I was treated for it and retested and no longer have it, I didnt have it for long, but what really worrys me the most is back in 2012 when i was 19 I had a surgical abortion with my first love that I was with for 61/2 years, he wasnt ready, it crushed me, but I went ahead with the abortion and that was the end of that relationship. Now that I met my soul mate and forever partner we have been ttc for a good three months nonstop unprotected sex, but I know I also have a very small tilted uterus, Im hoping someone that has had all of these symptoms tell me they successfully got pregnant, i cant stop obsessing over the thought of never having a child with the man I love.


  • Hiya,

    I'm sorry you've been through so much and I don't blame you at all for worrying. Have you talked to a doctor or a fertility specialist about any of this? They can give you examinations and scans to check for anything that might stop you getting pregnant. There are plenty of women out there who concieve normally after having abortions earlier in life and it is also possible to concieve after chlamydia but again I would say talk to a doctor. I have a tilted uterus too, and I am pregnant right now so the tilt didn't affect me. I did always lie down with my hips slightly raised after sex for half an hour just to help the sperm on their way, not sure if that helped but hey. Good luck on your ttc journey. Don't give up hope.

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