Trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage Part 11

Hello everyone, 

This is a new continuation thread for the all the people on the Trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage Part 10, as the last part of the thread has become huge and has so many pages, it's getting a bit hard to load.

We've posted a link to this new thread on the old thread, so hopefully everyone will be able to find it easily enough. Do let us know if that's not the case.

We'd like to wish you all well and lots of baby dust.



  • Here we go again!! New thread lets hope it brings some good luck to us all 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

  • Yes.... we defs need some!! xxx

  • Yes we definitely need to good luck! from now on if we get pregnant we will be having 2018 babies. Eeekkk. Hopefully we will all be lucky this year xxx

  • I know time flies when you are wishing ovulation to hurry up then wishing the tww to be over asap!! Seriously the months are going so quickly I really wanted to be pg by summer but thinking it's unlikely tbh:/

    No ovulation for me as yet and on cd14 thinking this cycle is not going to plan!! Temp is dropping right down to 36.20 this morning I was at 36.40 so it's dipping rather than rising and opks are completely almost blank whereas I normally always have a very visible 2nd line?!

    might be anovulatary this cycle:/ Will keep testing to see. Also my resting heart rate is 64 whereas when I ovulate it goes upto 73 so I know it's not happened b4 hand. Fitbit comes in handy!! Hopefully it won't happen too late! I'm not gonna concern myself as I'm back with specialist on the 8th June:)

  • So frustrating isn't it? 

    I am 4dpo according to the positive opk and temp rise i had.... OpKs are now negative but I have ached and cramped for the last 2 days which is annoying... not ov as tested with negative sticks. Roll on the scan on Friday to see if anything is wrong

  • yes hopefully baby dust will come to us all soon and we will all be having our much dreamed after babies soon :)

    I found out last night that I'm not as ok as I thought I was...breaking down crying in bed when I got an email telling me I should be 10 weeks...I didn't think about that sort of thing to cancel subscriptions

    I'm really hoping to be pregnant before December 3rd as that would have been my due date

  • I had that too MrsR.... I cancelled it and still got emails so I wrote a letter of complaint and the emails then stopped :( I won the be doing any of that next time if I am lucky enough to get a bfp

  • I enjoyed using the apps at the time but to be fair it was me who hadn't stopped the subscription...even silly things I didn't think about can be upsetting like my amazon is fully of baby searches and we had just brought some parenting and pregnancy books which we've had to hide away until whenever next time comes

  • I stupidly bought a baby grow and a cuddly dog. And a kit to knit a baby blanket :( all hidden away now 😢

  • Yeah my notifications didn't stop even when I emailed them I contacted them personally and they were truly sorry but it was a kick in the stomach every week:/

    I won't re join Butterfly until after 5 month scan should I ever get to that point again!

  • Sometimes I feel bad because I got so excited and was planning everything so early

    i had To tell all my work coleauges pretty much straight away because my job role had to change and had to keep myself safe (I work in a care home for dementia sufferers...lots of lifting and pulling and potential violence) 

    i didn't want to say anything till 12 weeks but I had no choice....turns out baby died 2 days after I told them :/ 

  • Oh no MrsRees its so hard telling everyone isn't it:/ I avoided all social situations after my late loss as I would just break down all the time:(

    Another mum (about 2 weeks after I had my little boy at 51/2 months) just loudly asked if I was finding out what I was having! Was awful as I was stood in the nursery line picking up my 3 yr old.Everyone heard and I had to look up and say he'd died 2 weeks earlier. Everyone just looked away uncomfortably  I left hubby in the line and ran off to sob was just awful no words can describe it 😪 I literally will not tell anyone if there's to be a next time 

  • oh that sounds awful people can be so nosey and inconsiderate and really unsupportive 

    I wish I didn't have to tell people but cuz of work I have no mum said to me if I don't say anything and I miscarried again I'd be wondering if it was something I did at work that caused it and would blame myself 

    luckily everyone at my work is super supportive and they all already know before I go back as my mum and nan work there which helps a bit 

  • If you have a good working relationship then that's great for you and you have people to talk too which is good:)

    Now we just need our sticky beans eh 😊

  • Yeah we do and im sure it's  going to happen we will have our precious little ones soon....I defiantly have faith in that xx

  • Hi everyone 

    hope you don't mind me joining. I'm feeling a little down and need encouragemen, so heres what I've been through so far.

    I had a misscarraige march 2016 after trying for 14 months so was heartbroken. We struggled to get through this and ended up splitting up for 2 months after realising we loved each other we got back together. We are now trying again but with no luck, so apart from 2 months apart we have been trying for 2 years and 4 months. We did go to the doctor before xmas and he said that it wasn't good that I had a miscarriage but it shows we can get pregnant so we've just carried on with the hope of "not trying and just having fun" will work But still no luck yet. 

    I have recently started taking vitamins but am trying to hold off obsessing over ovulation tests like I was. I have some nice holidays coming up so am trying to think about them and not baby making but just having fun.

    hope to see some bfp 

    babydust to everyone x

  • I felt frustrated when I was coming off the depo injection and trying to get pregnant and if course searching google I only found the worse case sinarios....try not to think too much about it but if you have a regular cycle try working out ovulation and high fertility dates and having "fun" at those times or trying to do it every 2-3 days that's what worked for me

    your time will come as will the rest of ours i hope baby dust sticks to you x

  • Hey everyone! 

    Ok so my MMC was in January.. found out in March I had 'retained product' so had to have medical miscarriage performed again. A few weeks after that I had my first post miscarriage AF which was very heavy and painful. I was temping and checking CM and it didn't look as though I ovulated on that last cycle. I had my second AF last week and now I'm on CD9. Im feeling so bloated and have loads of EWCM (sorry, TMI!).. I don't do OPKs so have no clue if I had an LH surge recently. Thinking i might possibly be ovulating due to other symptoms. CD9 is so early for me to ovulate as prior to my MMC I was ovulating on CD14/15. Does anyone have experience like this with ovulation post miscarriage? 

  • Hi Loose - my MMC was in July last year and I have had some random cycles... some with OV as early as day 10, some with EWCM starting on CD4 but then OV not happening until CD12. AFs only lasting 24 hours and really light - cramps all throughout - i think the surgery we have makes it more sensitive down there - I am actually having a scan tomorrow to check that there is nothing in there causing any issues.

  • Well I have my scan tomorrow I'm pretty sure the outcome isnt going to be good but I can't help looking at the dates and if i ovulated later in my cycle than I thought the dates would have added up so that at my last scan I would have been about 6 weeks which is what the doctor said

    but I've been bleeding pretty much the whole past week and at the beginning of april when I thought I was 6 weeks I was being sick but it stopped and then I wasn't only sick like 3 times

    i hope this is makih sense 

    I think I'm just trying to find hope where there isn't any and I'm annoying myself 

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