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Trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage Part 12

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  • rach83 have they told you if they can offer you any help for ovulating? Is there something you could take to help you ovulate again or is it just a waiting game? I do hope you ovulate soon and that the medium was right in having another baby! How lovely! I've seen a Clare voyant (don't know if im spelling that correctly)  before to see if they could pick up on my dad he had passed away when I was 7 but unfortunately she didn't but she  pick up on other things that turnt out to be the , maybe now the time would be right to see one again, do you see one often?

    How lovely mrs Rees! Did you have a nice time? I've been to Tenerife twice this year one for a hen do in march and in may for a family holiday I know about those lovely dresses your been talking about they're beaut! I really hope that is a sign for you! 

  • I guess time will tell :) we stayed in costa adeji  and had the best time :) I love the little matching shoes too 

    it was a nice way to relax and get away from everything and spent the whole time looking for nice things for our nephew haha 

    will be kind of disappointed if I haven't caught this time but am trying to just keep my hopes up as the right time will come (just wish that time isn't soon) 

  • Very nice! I've never stayed in that part before!  Did you manage to find something nice for your nephew? I'll keep my fingers crossed this may be your month, you've more than likely been more chilled out on holiday and not thought about it so much 

  • I started bleeding again after having a day and a half where it had stopped, did anyone else have this? I just want it to stop now, it's been 11 days now, I've had enough, it's getting  down now and making it harder to move on ☹️

  • WE brought him a bongo drum to annoy his parents haha

    when I started bleeding after medical management (I only had the hormone stopping tablet) I bled really heavy for a few days and I thought I'd passed everything then 6 days aftet I was still bleeding then passed something else...no idea what....then stopped bleeding maybe 2 days later 

    you could still have some retained products perhaps go to the doctors if it doesn't stop soon 

  • No, I don't see them regularly, just when they have a special evening for fundraising or something. 

    My GP said about having Clomid to help me ovulate but they couldn't prescribe it  and that's why she referred me to a specialist. Hopefully hear something soon about an appointment xx

  • Mrs Rees was it like a long thing? I passed something like that a few days ago, and have no idea what that was! I have a scan on Monday so hopefully they'll be able to tell me if any things left over then 

     I really hope you get this sorted very soon, it must be such a nightmare xx

  • yeah it was....I have no idea what the hell it must of been but seemed a large thing to come out so long after everything else 

    hope you get your appointment soon rach83 

  • I thought the exact same thing, I panicked thinking it was a fallopian tube 😳 Was petrified! Much of been at least 3 or 4 inches 

  • YEAH that sounds exactly the same...no idea what it must of been though

    well im out this month af reared her ugly head today, I'm a bit disappointed really and this is the first time its properly hit me as I don't really have anything to focus on or take the edge off

    up until now at least I've been able to say well I can enjoy my holiday with bow worries or fears but now all I keep thinking is one month closer to previous due date and no pregnancy :/ 

  • I'm glad I'm not the only one that experienced that, thank you for sharing! Mrs Rees just try and stay as relaxed as possible easier said then done I know just try and keep busy and hopefully it'll happen before Christmas, how long have you been trying since m/c now? 

  • I mc in early may so started ttc in June after Father's Day when first af arrived. I would have been due Dec 4th so really hoping for bfp before then 

    I guess whatever will be will be as the saying goes just gotta find distractions and keep busy....in more ways than 1 😉😂

  • I really hope you conceive before then, I can understand I'm really hoping to concieve before march! Hahaha yes definitely! That's the way to do It 😂! I have my scan at 9am tomorrow I'm praying that everything has come away 

  • I hope scan goes well for you and that your good to go for ttc whenever you feel ready to do so

    ive found humour seems to be my coping mechanism I did it as a kid through grandparents death and grandmas dementia and now I guess it helps me cope with this too 

  • Thanks mrs Rees, scan went well, I have 1cm blood clot in there and that's it she said that'll just come out on it own and I have the okay to have sex now and she said it looks as though I'll ovulate in about a weeks time which is great :)! It definitely helps just stay positive and keep thinking when the times right it will happen 

  • That's great news everything went well, mummytolily, and that you got good news about when you will ovulate :) 

  • Really glad the scan went well mummy to Lilly at least now you Know you can get to trying again :) so pleased for you x

  • Thank you so much mrs rees & whale chick, I feel as if it's a relief everything's okay but a bit sad that that's it now, that's the complete end of that pregnancy, now time to chill out and forget about being pregnant for a while (I won't be taking any contraception) so will just see what happens, hope everyone's okay today? Xx

  • Wow, I've missed alot in a week. That's great news about the scan mummytolily, that you're body is recovering. Make sure you look after yourself too, I know how stressful it all is. 

    For me, I feel I'm coping better this month, my original due date would have been 13th Oct, really wanted to catch by then, AF will be due around then too, so fingers crossed. It's my birthday tomorrow and we've been doing lots of fun things and keeping distracted, think ov day is in the next couple of days, starting to feel light cramps. Fingers crossed ladies. 

  • Thanks slinky86! I was petrified there was gunna be loads left or worse an infection! So was a relief! Fingers crossed that you catch this month I hope you have a lovely birthday tomorrow and get spoilt rotten! 

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