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Trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage Part 14

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  • Mummyto3, I’m so sorry for your loss. This all brings back painful memories for us all so I know how your feeling right now. I do hope your around some support right now and that you take time out for yourself. 

  • oh mummy to 3 I’m so sorry it’s  not fair you don’t deserve this to happen as the girls have said take some time for your self and maybe see a doctor and see if they can refere you to someone who can find out why your having all these happen xxx

  • Good morning ladies, how are you all doing?

    Mummyto3 how are you today hun?

  • Mummyto3 so sorry to hear this. My first loss literally mirrors yours as my tests never got to 3+ and I miscarried at 6 weeks. Huge hugs to you and hopefully the doctors can find out the reasons behind your losses.xxx

  • Sorry to hear that Mummyto3, I had everything crossed for you and hoped it would be your time. 

    I've been thinking a lot about my miscarriage this last couple days as I'm out again this month and next week I'm going away and I remember thinking when I found out I was pregnant that I'd be 5 months when we go away and it's playing on my mind. Like many of us after suffering a loss, I was hoping to be pregnant by now but I'm not and I'm finding it hard. I have to go back to the specialist next month who said if I wasn't pregnant by then they'd do another thing involving a small camera, what it's called I don't know but it gives a better look inside than an ultrasound. 

  • Having a wobbly afternoon. Just realised after this cycle (on CD16) I only have one more opportunity to TTC before my due date of my angel. I had hoped I would be pregnant by then and now I'm cursing myself for not trying this month as I needed a break 😞 can only bd on CD 20 this cycle and although I had a long cycle last month I'm certain my time this cycle has past. Feeling sorry for myself today, imagining how I would be at nearly 31 weeks pregnant right now and how I would be planning for my little ones arrival. Feels silly because I know a few of us are going through a tough time right now and Im ok but just having a moment. Feel a bit unsupported by my partner to as he isn't really interested in trying again just yet. Also filled for divorce a week ago from my children's father's. So a little emotional I guess 

  • Mummyto3, like all the other girls on here, I’m truly gutted for you. I don’t know why this happens and it’s not bloody fair. Sending you big hugs. We’re here for you xxx

    Honey and Sherman, I’m feeling a lot like you. This is a hard journey to be on. I should be 30 weeks pregnant now and I’m still devestated by my loss. I feel robbed of my baby boy and feel bad for the rest of my family too who were so excited and it’s so unfair.

    bex- I hope you’re doing ok.

    mrsRees, how‘s things with you?

    xxx

  • Hey girls, I was pregnant in January and at 7weeks started to have brown/pink discharge one day then a few days later it was a full on period ended up in a&e and lost it. I got pregnant straight after my MC as I didn’t have a normal period just the MC I am now 10weeks and ive had 2 early scans and there was only the sac and yolk sac to be seen nothing else, the second scan the same but with stranding, she said this is fluid or blood! I was booked in for a scan at the hospital on the 10th May but started bleeding on Sunday like a normal period so I know I’m going to have a MC again ☹️😢. It’s awful! Has anyone here had 2 MC and now pregnant again and all going well? im Just scared it will happen again! need everyone’s advice. xx

  • Hi Steviie, welcome. I'm sorry to hear about your recent loses. I have had just one miscarriage so I can not comment on what you are asking. I however wish you luck. Look after yourself and try to rest. Give your body some time to heal. Have they told you why it was only a sac and no baby? At 10 weeks you would normally see more.

    Sending love 

  • They didn’t really say much only that maybe I’ve got my dates wrong because of the previous MC maybe my cycle was all wrong but godknows I have no idea. Then when I started bleeding Sunday I thought well this is why there was no Baby? I’ve got the scan at the EPU Thursday so the midwife said to just go and see what they see or don’t see xx 

  • Hi everyone well tea time last night i passed the baby in the sac 😢bleesing a little bit heavier now early pregnancy called me bk this morning and got me in for a scan its all passed so as thts been my 3rd this yr in a row they're sending it away for genetic testing this time to go bk 6 weeks today for bloods to be taken and got the gynacologist on the 7th of June think im still in shock with actually seeing it come away like tht xxx

  • Mummyto3 I'm sorry hun. I passed my baby in the sac. I was nearly 11weeks but baby was only 9 weeks. Never saw it up close but it was hard. Thinking of you hun x

  • Hi everyone,

    hope you don't mind me posting. It's my first ever post.

    I am so sorry to hear of all the MC's.

    I had a MC at 5 weeks on 27th April, still so sad and shocked by it. I was at work at the time and had to finish my shift, followed by a horrible few days. 

    I have been monitoring my o and i had my first blinking face today so hooefhoph my body is starting to recover and we can start trying again soon.

  • MUmmy to 3 I’m so sorry lovely my heart breaks for you thst your going through this again and it must be so distressing to have seen the sac. I didn’t really understand what I was seeing when I mc but I think I saw the sac but it went down the toilet 

    I’m having to take the month off from ttc mainly because I’m in my fertile days and I’m working 12 hour day shifts and husband working 12 hour night shift and I leave before he gets home and he leaves before I get home so won’t see each other till Friday evening and won’t get to dtd till Saturday afternoon 

  • Hi ladies, how is everyone today?

    Mummyto3, I am so sorry you are going trough this again. I hope you’re doing as ok as you can be.

    I’m on day 34 of my cycle (usually my cycles are 29-32 days), so my period is late (and also no sign of it whatsoever) but I had a BFN this morning, so I don’t know what to think!

  • Dee2dee I'm like in between of losing hope and still hoping. 

    I'very got 8yo daughter from previous relationship, sad part is that she is asking from few years for having siblings :( she sometimes could ask few times in a week about it, and lately I decided that she is big enough to understand, and explained that we wanted too but I can' have it for now because I am not "healthy" enough. So now she is asking all the time if I am healthy enough to have a baby.... Or asking when I will be. 

    And AF just decided to visit me today :/ 

    How's eveveryone else? 

    Baby dust to all of us xx

  • Oh Mummy to 3 I am so sorry for you lose 

  • Hi ladies, hope everyone is doing ok today.

    I’m feeling super low as AF came this morning and because it was 5 days late and because we DTD so much this month I really allowed myself to hope that I might get my BFP :(

  • I’m sorry your feeling so low busybee and that this month wasn’t your bfp but keep up the hope the month I got a static smile and used conceive plus I had a lot of hope for bfp and when it didn’t come it was heartbreaking but you will get there 

    I’m on cd 18 and dtd today when I did get a positive ovulation test I got it on day 17 and 18 but I’m not really trying this month and just having the blood test 

  • Thank you Mrs Rees. I’m beginning to think I should just stop trying for a bit too and just try to relax a bit but it is hard as I am 37 in a few weeks and just really worry about time. They say if you relax and stop thinking about it, it could just happen; but who knows.

    whens your blood test? Hope it goes well xx

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