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Trying to get pregnant after a miscarriage Part 15

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  • fingers crossed af doesnt arrive for you mrsrees 

    im deffo going to stick around i think it will really help us all having the support of each other 

    bleeding for me seems to have slowed down althou last night pains came back again not as bad as the start and i started bleeding heavy and another huge clot passed i hope thats it now ive order aome cheap pregnancy tests to see when the hcg has gone xx

  • Been for scan today was sad as felt like I should of been seeing my baby on that screen not an empty womb but it confirmed everything has come away naturally 

    How's everyone doing? Xx

  • Hey Girls, Hope your all ok? Sorry to hear that some of you are having a shit time at the moment. It does get easier with time, I promise.  I’m due on today or tomorrow. Not 100% sure as I stopped temping and doing ov tests now. I keep meaning to start it all again but forgetting. Think I’m getting bored of trying now, will be 6 years we’ve been trying this August. 2 years since I was last pregnant with ectopic. Feel like its never gonna happen. Gonna go back to doctors at some point and see what they can do. Not hopeful though. X

  • I really hope it happens for you very soon sweetcherrypie 

    I'm worried it will take a while I've done the ov tests before I think I'm going to try with out them for now last time I felt like I was constantly peeing on a stick I was getting obsessed then when af would come I'd be so miserable then it was actually with my 14 month old when I stopped it all that it actually happened xx

  • Has anyone who’s been trying for quite some time had day 3 bloods done?? I’ve been suggested to ask my doctor about getting them done but not sure if my doctor will or if they are usually done when your with a fertility specialist??

    sweetcherrypie wow can’t believe you’ve been trying for 6 years, have doctors referred you to specialists at all can you get any help or privately even I know it’s expensive 

  • Aw ladies what an awful time of it we’re all having, thinking of you all ❤️

    MrsRees never had day 3 bloods done although I remember having the normal run of the mill bloods done to check glucose, hormone levels and thyroid. Before I had my DS I also had a scan which suggested PCOS and I was put on medication (can’t remember what it was) it took us 3-4 years to have him.

    This time we were trying for 4 years got put on metaformin in Oct 2017 which regulated my periods lost 2.5 stone, came off the metaformin in the April and fell pregnant in the June sadly it ended in miscarriage fell pregnant in Dec 2018 and again ended in miscarriage. Both Very different emotionally and physically.

    I would go and ask your doctor to run some blood tests the reason I got the metaformin was because they said that my PCOS could be insulin resistant and this helped to regulated my periods xxx

  • Hi ladies 

    hope you don’t mind me joining. 

    i went for a private scan Saturday and they told me no heartbeat. Followed it up in the hospital, and yesterday they confirmed babys heart stopped at 8weeks2 days.

    im booked in for d&c tomorrow. I couldn’t take the eaiting On my other options. I just need an end to it all 

    I’m hoping this thread will help me keep my head up. I’m fine one minute and then I feel like I’ve been punched in the stomach all over again 

    sorry for the negative post x

  • Hi mlmmum I’m so sorry for your loss and don’t worry about negative posts this is the place where you can feel safe posting all negative feelings as we have all been there and know how you feel and will support you through it all

    i went for the medical option with taking a tablet to start miscarriage at it happend really quick for me but that’s not to say it is the same for everyone 

    I’ve been here for 2 years with 2 miscarriages and I can honestly say that the feeling of being fine then feeling like you’ve been punched never goes away but the bad times become fewer and farther between but they pop up every now and again for me it does get easier to deal with 

    hope we can help you to keep hope that you will have your rainbow xxx

  • So sorry to hear you are going through this MLMmum i hope everything goes ok tomorrow big hugs it's heartbreaking it's still fairly fresh for me I have days when I'm ok then other times I have a good cry at night or like the other day I was in the car and on the radio they were talking about that they had gone round someone's house and the older daughter was wearing a top that said we have done it again as an announcement and I had that t shirt sat at home to put on my little girl on the Monday after the dating scan we found out the bad news the Friday sometimes feels like everywhere i turn there's something to push it to the front of my mind

    Im still spotting suspose its still early for everything to have stopped was a week and a half ago pregnancy tests are nearly negitive now the faintest line on a 10ml xx

  • Thanks for the reply both

    rainbowsunshine  am exactly the same as you. Had a T-shirt for my little girl and books to help her get used to there being a new baby 

    if you don’t mind me asking, was it a spontaneous miscarriage? Or did you have medical help? X

  • I went for a scan at 7 weeks 1 day saw the heartbeat went back on the friday just before my dating scan on the Monday due to a small amount of blood once when I wiped should of been 10 weeks 3 days and she said there was no heartbeat and that the baby hadn't grown much more from my 7 week scan so was told to come back in a weeks time for another scan and to decided what I wanted to do but the Monday I had a lot of pain and all came away naturally went back for the scan on the Friday of that week and they said everything had come away so I was as lucky as I could of been at the time that I didn't need any medical intervention xx

  • Have you started ttc again. I’ve read so many mixed things about when is best to start, whether sttaught away or wait. My doctor advised to continue taking folic acid and also vitamin d so I have them ready x

  • I want to but I'm also the same don't know when is best some say after first pierod but I've googled a lot and some people have got pregnant before a pierod from what I've read you will normal ovulate between 2 and 4 weeks after my plan is just to contiune folic acid and see what happens I still keep spotting at the min so haven't done anything don't know how long that lasts for 🙄 xx

  • I started ttc after First period on first mc but started straight after bleeding stopped on second, didn’t make any difference for me as didn’t catch either way, it took me a year to fall pregnant after first mc which was a missed miscarriage baby stopped growing and heartbeat stopped at 6w2d but I didn’t start bleeding till 9 weeks then had to wait a week to confirm so took medical management tablets at 10 weeks, that was May 2017 and then fell pregnant again in March 2018 and mc in July 2018 at Around 8 weeks after I had a scan showing healthy baby at 7w5d 

    we Are trying for our first baby and I should have a 14 month old and a 2 week old, life sucks and is very unfair and my doctors here are terrible as they won’t assist Or send me to a fertility clinic or do any tests because i Haven’t had 3 mc and I haven’t been trying for a year without a pregnancy, it really sucks 

  • Sorry for your loss MLMmum, I’ve just gone through my second miscarriage both natural first one was in August 2018 I bled for 1 week and periods returned about 4 or 5 weeks after bleeding stopped, I fell pregnant in December 2018 (didn’t think for a minute it would happen that quick) and again miscarried this time bleeding wasn’t as heavy but I’ve spotted for another 3 weeks after it, stopped for a few days and now having a period type bleed (which I’ll count as my period since I had a break of  5 days from the spotting). My doctor advised taking a multi vitamin that had folic acid  and vitamin d in it. Mrs Rees like you my doctor won’t do any kind of formal tests until 3rd miscarriage seems to be standard practice for doctors not that it’s any help to us.

  • Yeah it doesn’t help anyone does it, think I’m more annoyed that they won’t class the nearly 3 years I’ve been trying with no successful live babies as a sufficient time to help and look into why it takes me so long to get pregnant from first pregnancy ending to Finding out I was pregnant the second time it took around 10 1/2 months and it’s been 7 months since last miscarriage so surely there’s a battery there that it takes longer than average to get pregnant, 

  • Hey Ladies, 

    So I was due on Friday night (spotting) or Saturday (full period) but I’ve been dark brown spotting since Saturday which as never gotten heavier than a smear in panty liner. Have mild period cramps as well. Done 2 cheapy test 20miu last night and this morning and BFN!! Although I thought I could see very faint evap line this morning. I’m never late and always bang on when fertility friend tells me even if I disagree with when it says lol. I actually marvel at how it know when exactly I will come on.
    Only other thing I can think of is that 2 weeks ago I started a Keto diet (very low carb) maybe thats delaying it. I have done low carb diets before but it never effected periods. Keep expecting to come on everytime I go to loo but half the te there is nothing. Wish me luck xx
  • False alarm.... Was woken up with pain lasts night and heavier blood so I’m sure this is the witch turning up and that the delay was due to the new diet. X
  • Hi sweet cherry pie sorry af turned up that sucks, I suppose any change to your bodies normal could have an effect 
    I’m waiting on af I’ve had spotting for a few days was pink for a few days then very dark brown today but I’m sure it will come soon 

    it’s taken ages for me to find the tread again since the change over 
  • Hi ladies, been looking for this thread for a while, seemed to have lost track

    af has arrived today, since the mmc and right on time 

    the pain last night was horrendous! Actually thought I was going to pass out, but since then no pain and the bleeding isn’t that bad 

    I know it may be tmi but how was your first af after mc? 

    Also, we conceived last month using agnus cactus, don’t know whether to try it again this time or whether that impacted on the miscarriage 

    how is everything feeling? X
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