Positive IVF stories please :-(
Hi All, hope you are having a good time , Friday finally!!
Been through multiple failed IVF and Clomid treatments, heart broken ,in need of motivation badly , trying since last 6 years with no luck, PCOS+ Diabetic + Thyroid+ irregular AF , 35 years old. Last time 2 good quality frozen embryos were transferred, no AF till next few months and I was hoping and praying for positive - just nothing happened 😞. Blood test came negative. Anyone been through similar situation? Anyone got positive with similar medical condition? Please post your stories!! Thanks a lot!
Been through multiple failed IVF and Clomid treatments, heart broken ,in need of motivation badly , trying since last 6 years with no luck, PCOS+ Diabetic + Thyroid+ irregular AF , 35 years old. Last time 2 good quality frozen embryos were transferred, no AF till next few months and I was hoping and praying for positive - just nothing happened 😞. Blood test came negative. Anyone been through similar situation? Anyone got positive with similar medical condition? Please post your stories!! Thanks a lot!
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I am currently 5 weeks pregnant following my final IVF cycle. I have severe mixed emotions to looking at baby things that I will buy to keep going to the loo as I am expecting to start bleeding and my dream be shattered. I have another 2 weeks to wait for my first scan.
Lbauer27 you are right, people who haven't been through fertility treatments don't understand what it feels like and it's so easy for someone who can conceive naturally to take it for granted or expect that you could too..... blocked tubes due to endometriosis and impossible for me.
@DM197 I’m sure @MrsS35 will also relate to this. I would call my husband every day crying and tell him I was stopping my medication. What if it doesn’t work again? He kept saying “what if it does work?” And it would make me so angry bc he has no idea truly what it feels like to watch the clock looking for your next dose. You deserve to be a mother and you will get there. ❤️❤️❤️ It’s so hard not doll to do this... but don’t blame yourself or your body. You are doing everything you can to make this work. Doctors don’t usually make you go through the process is they don’t believe you can conceive. They are harshly realistic in my opinion. If another round of IVF is an option for you, I say you go for it! And we will be here rooting for you! My friends would often make comments to me about how we could probably buy another house with the money we are spending. What they don’t understand is that I would trade in my current home if it gave me the opportunity at another chance at being a mom. 🤞🌈
Lots of love and prayers for both of you MrsS35 & Lori xx sending you both good vibes xx May God shower his blessings on us !
I completely agree with your point Lori, I been through same “ What they don’t understand is that I would trade in my current home if it gave me the opportunity at another chance at being a mom” What is life without a family , without child! I have spent all my savings and will keep doing that until I can. I just had a failed cycle recently, will give another try in few months time.
Lori, MrsS35 - let me know how it goes , take good care and stay healthy.
@Susiegirlygirl that’s a great point. I forgot we did that as well. @dm197 said she had good quality transfers, so I’m guessing she had them tested? More than half of mine had abnormalities. It helped weed out some potentially heartbreaking transfers. My first was still unsuccessful, even with a really high grade. Unfortunately, my doctor said this is quite common. Do you have anymore embryos to work with from your last retrieval @dm197? 🤞💕 hoping your next chance comes soon!
I don’t have any left , this would a fresh cycle , for all the IVF cycles , I had developed OHSS and it went frozen , expecting same this time too.