TTC My first with my BF
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Hi,
I'm not sure if this is the right place to post and I think some people might give me stress over it but my BF and I have decided to have our first baby together, im 16 and he is 24 and we will get married when im 18
We have been dating for 9 months now and I love him very much, his mum and dad are really well off and I get on well with them and his mum knows we have started to TTC
She has gotten me some prenatal vitamins and we talk about it a lot, she even helped me plan it all, lol
I guess everyone on here will think im silly and to young but its all legal here and I love him so very much.
If anyone wants to chat or give me advice then it would be cool, nobody negative please x
Rachel
I'm not sure if this is the right place to post and I think some people might give me stress over it but my BF and I have decided to have our first baby together, im 16 and he is 24 and we will get married when im 18
We have been dating for 9 months now and I love him very much, his mum and dad are really well off and I get on well with them and his mum knows we have started to TTC
She has gotten me some prenatal vitamins and we talk about it a lot, she even helped me plan it all, lol
I guess everyone on here will think im silly and to young but its all legal here and I love him so very much.
If anyone wants to chat or give me advice then it would be cool, nobody negative please x
Rachel
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Just out of interest, are you close with your own family? Personally if it were me I wouldn't want to have a baby at your age or in your situation. Having a baby has been the best thing in my life to date, although I did have a horrendous pregnancy - I've written up my experience if you wanted to see it. One of the reasons I wouldn't have wanted a baby at 16 us that there are a lot of things I either wouldn't have been able to do or that would have been 1000x harder if I had a baby that young. However... if I were going to then I wouldn't ever want to rely solely on the father (or father's family) for support when thinking about having a baby.
My bf and I are just going to see what happens, he is really nice and maybe love is blind but I would really love to be with him forever
Once I finish school then we are planning to move in together to the granny flat at his place, its away from the main house and above the garages. I'm not desperate to get pregnant right away but we aren't using anything at the moment so it could happen
I dont think I will regret it, no matter what happens
His mum and I are both hoping it happens this year, I would love to be big by christmas
One of my friends was with a 27 year old when she was just 15,they waited till she was 16 before having sex. They got married when she was 22 and then had a child, but are no longer together now. she was so young when they got together,she missed out on a lot of things and the age gap became too much in the end x
I know he is older but he is so lovely, I waited untill my 16th birthday too
I don think I will miss out on much, my life is really boring
It's a shame you don't have a good relationship with your parents, but that happens doesn't it 😔 💗 x
I know my mum didn't want to have me, she told me so more than once