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Trying Again after Losing My Little Girl
Chloe888
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Hi Girls,
I lost my little girl at 19 weeks gestation on the 1st of April 2020. I bled for 3 weeks after my surgery but it has stopped now. She had turners syndrome, cystic hygroma, hydrops and hypoplastic left heart syndrome. She was really poorly.
As awful as this must sound to some people I'm still grieving and crying a lot when I look at her ashes but I just want to be pregnant again. Feel like all my dreams are gone 😪
I am struggling to track anything as haven't had a period since my surgery. I took a cheap ovulation strip this morning and it looked as though I was ovulating 😁🙏 but then took a clearblue later on and it came up with the negative blank face.
Could this be because it wasn't my morning urine on the clearblue one or possibly shite cheap ovulation sticks giving a wrong reading of positive.
Sorry to ramble I got pregnant straight away last time and unsure on tracking ovulation.
Any help would be appreciated.
Xx
I lost my little girl at 19 weeks gestation on the 1st of April 2020. I bled for 3 weeks after my surgery but it has stopped now. She had turners syndrome, cystic hygroma, hydrops and hypoplastic left heart syndrome. She was really poorly.
As awful as this must sound to some people I'm still grieving and crying a lot when I look at her ashes but I just want to be pregnant again. Feel like all my dreams are gone 😪
I am struggling to track anything as haven't had a period since my surgery. I took a cheap ovulation strip this morning and it looked as though I was ovulating 😁🙏 but then took a clearblue later on and it came up with the negative blank face.
Could this be because it wasn't my morning urine on the clearblue one or possibly shite cheap ovulation sticks giving a wrong reading of positive.
Sorry to ramble I got pregnant straight away last time and unsure on tracking ovulation.
Any help would be appreciated.
Xx
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of course you will grieve her but i appreciate you will also want to get pregnant again quickly!
id be surprised if the ovulation test was a false positive, do you have any other signs of ovulation? (Light cramps, egg white cervical mucus) I’d recommend just doing the deed the next few days to make sure you don’t miss the window! And maybe do some further ovulation tests the next little while too!
I tracked last month but cycle was all over the place but its settled this cycle and really gave it our best shot so fingers crossed im 5dpo today xxxx
You’ll have good and bad days regardless as you’re still grieving. Try to be kind to yourself.xxx