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Partners and miscarriage

Hi guys, 
I recently had a chemical miscarriage, confirmed by blood tests yesterday 😢 after trying to conceive for just under a year, we always have sex on my main day of ovulation and the days around it too but after having the chemical miscarriage my partner has started wearing condoms, I think hes given up... We haven't talked about it since it happened. I guess im just asking what your partners were like if you've gone through this too.
My biggest concern is that this has been the closest we've got, the fiest possitive since we started, even though it didnt work out maybe the possitive scared him for the future. Feel very deflated 

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  • I've not been in your position, but one thing really stood out for me in your post...

    "We haven't talked about it since it happened"

    You can't possibly know how he's feeling or why he's started using contraception without speaking with him. Please try to talk to him so you can both work out a way forward.

    Wishing you luck for the future, and I'm sorry for your loss. 
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