Hi @Apsa1819! Thanks for asking. Yes you're right, I didn't update here yet. I started bleeding heavily yesterday and I went to the gyn right away, she told me that it will be most probably a chemical, I should re-test on Friday to see if the hcg is still detectable or not. And I already tested an hour ago, it's not really visible anymore with a pregnancy test. So, unfortunately I'm out for that month. But the doctor was so lovely, she told be to think positive. A chemical is not nice, of course, but it's a good sign that I can get pregnant. So there's that! I was bummed yesterday, today I'm a lot better. To be very honest, I didn't have a really good feeling about everything. I can't tell you exactly what it was, but it felt... off? I don't know. Also I was really surprised that it already worked out after two months. We're both not the youngest chickens in the stable anymore, so good news I think
Hi @Apsa1819! Thanks for asking. Yes you're right, I didn't update here yet. I started bleeding heavily yesterday and I went to the gyn right away, she told me that it will be most probably a chemical, I should re-test on Friday to see if the hcg is still detectable or not. And I already tested an hour ago, it's not really visible anymore with a pregnancy test. So, unfortunately I'm out for that month. But the doctor was so lovely, she told be to think positive. A chemical is not nice, of course, but it's a good sign that I can get pregnant. So there's that! I was bummed yesterday, today I'm a lot better. To be very honest, I didn't have a really good feeling about everything. I can't tell you exactly what it was, but it felt... off? I don't know. Also I was really surprised that it already worked out after two months. We're both not the youngest chickens in the stable anymore, so good news I think
That's really unfortunate @Bundaberg But like you said, this is a good sign that things r happening & you can get pregnant very soon! I know it must be a difficult time, but stay happy & positive! This will happen sooner than later! And do take good care of yourself!
@Apsa1819 sorry to hear that, I know it’s hard but remember 4 months isn’t that long. Just make sure you have plenty of chocolate and wine during af then start of a brand new month
@Bundaberg Yes, I am well, thank you dear! Onto a new cycle now, so keeping fingers crossed!CD4 today, will see how this one goes! Any advice is appreciated
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But the doctor was so lovely, she told be to think positive. A chemical is not nice, of course, but it's a good sign that I can get pregnant. So there's that!
I was bummed yesterday, today I'm a lot better. To be very honest, I didn't have a really good feeling about everything. I can't tell you exactly what it was, but it felt... off? I don't know. Also I was really surprised that it already worked out after two months. We're both not the youngest chickens in the stable anymore, so good news I think
Maybe wait for 1-2 more days? i've seen for my friends, it sometimes doesn't show up until 4-5 days after AF! Fingers crossed!
@Bundaberg : Hope you are doing well!