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Feeling a bit defeated..

GenLillyGenLilly Regular
edited Jul 11, 2023 9:24AM in Trying to conceive
My husband and I have been TTC for over a year and a half now, we had a chemical pregnancy in December and got our BFP at last in February, but unfortunately I miscarried around 13 weeks.

Does anybody have any advice? Has anybody been through similar? 

Also, if I got a BFP at 10DPO in February, does that mean I'm likely to get a BFP at 10DPO for future pregnancies or can it vary? 

It's 11DPO for me currently, first ovulation since the loss but I have a feeling I'm out this month, I got a BFN today and not really getting any symptoms.

I'm starting to feel like it'll never happen for us, it's been a rough year and a half or so.

Thanks in advance.

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  • TheWelshDreamerTheWelshDreamer Regular
    GenLilly said:
    My husband and I have been TTC for over a year and a kid half now, we had a chemical pregnancy in December and got our BFP at last in February, but unfortunately I miscarried around 13 weeks.

    Does anybody have any advice? Has anybody been through similar? 

    Also, if I got a BFP at 10DPO in February, does that mean I'm likely to get a BFP at 10DPO for future pregnancies or can it vary? 

    It's 11DPO for me currently, first ovulation since the loss but I have a feeling I'm out this month, I got a BFN today and not really getting any symptoms.

    I'm starting to feel like it'll never happen for us, it's been a rough year and a half or so.

    Thanks in advance.
    It can vary hun, I got my first positive when pregnant with my little girl at 8/9dpo, I didn’t get my next positive on my 2nd until I was around 15/16dpo! You’re not out until Aunt Flo arrives! All the best hun xx
  • GenLillyGenLilly Regular
    Thank you. I've been super grumpy the last few days but I think it's just PMS and stress, AF is due in the next day or so. I'm 12DPO but got a BFN with FMU. Hopefully next month will be our month xx
  • TheWelshDreamerTheWelshDreamer Regular
    GenLilly said:
    Thank you. I've been super grumpy the last few days but I think it's just PMS and stress, AF is due in the next day or so. I'm 12DPO but got a BFN with FMU. Hopefully next month will be our month xx
    It’s a bugger when pms symptoms are the same as some pregnancy symptoms isn’t it! I will keep my fingers crossed for you keep me updated 🥰 it took me 9 months to get pregnant after coming off my depo injection, I’m now 23 weeks with our second little girl.. it will happen for you❤️x
  • GenLillyGenLilly Regular
    edited Jul 12, 2023 8:56AM
    TheWelshDreamer said:
    GenLilly said:
    Thank you. I've been super grumpy the last few days but I think it's just PMS and stress, AF is due in the next day or so. I'm 12DPO but got a BFN with FMU. Hopefully next month will be our month xx
    It’s a bugger when pms symptoms are the same as some pregnancy symptoms isn’t it! I will keep my fingers crossed for you keep me updated 🥰 it took me 9 months to get pregnant after coming off my depo injection, I’m now 23 weeks with our second little girl.. it will happen for you❤️x
    Amazing, that's awesome, congratulations 🥰 I'd have been 23 weeks on Friday but it just wasn't meant to be! 
    We started trying over a year and a half ago, it feels like a lot longer! I think I'm going to book in with the doctors again and check everything's okay, although now that we've actually had a pregnancy they'll probably say everything is fine 🙈 
    Thank you for you words of encouragement, much appreciated, feeling quite alone through all of this to be honest! X
  • TheWelshDreamerTheWelshDreamer Regular
    GenLilly said:
    Jo Jo TheWelshDreamer said:
    GenLilly said:
    Thank you. I've been super grumpy the last few days but I think it's just PMS and stress, AF is due in the next day or so. I'm 12DPO but got a BFN with FMU. Hopefully next month will be our month xx
    It’s a bugger when pms symptoms are the same as some pregnancy symptoms isn’t it! I will keep my fingers crossed for you keep me updated 🥰 it took me 9 months to get pregnant after coming off my depo injection, I’m now 23 weeks with our second little girl.. it will happen for you❤️x
    Amazing, that's awesome, congratulations 🥰 I'd have been 23 weeks on Friday but it just wasn't meant to be! 
    We started trying over a year and a half ago, it feels like a lot longer! I think I'm going to book in with the doctors again and check everything's okay, although now that we've actually had a pregnancy they'll probably say everything is fine 🙈 
    Thank you for you words of encouragement, much appreciated, feeling quite alone through all of this to be honest! X
    Thank you lovely🥰. Awe no way! Sometimes things happen for a reason, it’s absolutely shxt but there’s always something bigger coming 🤞🏻.  Because you’ve had a loss that was over 12 weeks they should do some tests to see what actually caused it and to see if it could be prevented, I always tell myself if it’s meant to be, it will be.. and always remember good things come to those who wait🥰 wish you the best of luck!! I’m always a message away if you ever need to chat, not gonna lie I felt so lonely myself even tho there’s people around that say they’re here for ya,
    You still just got that empty feeling inside and it won’t shift 🙈. Xxx
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