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Need advice - posted in TTC as well
OK girls, need advice! After an mmc in July I tested on 13th August and got a BFN - not even a tiny hint of a line. I was relieved I wasn't still showing my bfp. But I've just been an idiot - I'm at a wedding on tuesday and wanted to know if I was allowed to drink or not. So I bought a dirt cheap couple of tests in the pound shop instead of using my asda ones, and purposefully tested this afternoon as hubby is away until tomorrow night and I didn't want him to think I was being stupid for testing... or wasting money!!
A faint line came up on the cheapie, and I convinced myself it was one of those stupid lines that isnt a bfp but appears where the line should be, if you follow me?! So I used an asda one and the line came up within 30 seconds - BFP!!! It can't possibly be the baby I lost as I tested before and it was BFN!! OMG!!! BUT hubby has always said he would hate me testing without him - I had no symptoms other than a slightly bloated tummy (thought it was lead up to af) so didn't think it would be anything else... I'm so scared and shaking!!! Anyway, do I tell him that I tested, or do I try not to say anything then test Sunday morning when he's back?! I hate lying to him but I know he will be gutted that he wasn't here with me!!!
I don't know what to do!!! I should be excited but I'm soooo scared... I didn't expect it to happen so soon, have no idea on my dates at all, haven't had af since 23rd April!!! EEK!!!! HELP!!!!
A faint line came up on the cheapie, and I convinced myself it was one of those stupid lines that isnt a bfp but appears where the line should be, if you follow me?! So I used an asda one and the line came up within 30 seconds - BFP!!! It can't possibly be the baby I lost as I tested before and it was BFN!! OMG!!! BUT hubby has always said he would hate me testing without him - I had no symptoms other than a slightly bloated tummy (thought it was lead up to af) so didn't think it would be anything else... I'm so scared and shaking!!! Anyway, do I tell him that I tested, or do I try not to say anything then test Sunday morning when he's back?! I hate lying to him but I know he will be gutted that he wasn't here with me!!!
I don't know what to do!!! I should be excited but I'm soooo scared... I didn't expect it to happen so soon, have no idea on my dates at all, haven't had af since 23rd April!!! EEK!!!! HELP!!!!
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Thats just how I would handle it, as I'm rubbish at lying and have made the mistake of starting a little lie, then getting caught out and looking bad
Oh I don't know!! Did another test last night before bed and even then it showed a faint bfp, and another this morning (as I cant believe it!) and its soooo strong a line!!
Love the idea of the dance of excitement though wonderwoman xx
Said I need to do a proper test to be certain, so he's coming home tonight (will be very late though) and we're testing in the morning. Have a christening tomorrow as well, so lots of babies!!
Have seen a friend and my sister today, seeing my mam and my best friend later and struggling to keep it quiet!! Hubby kept asking if it could possibly be Button, but told him no.
So we're testing in the morning to 'find out for certain' lol. He said if I hadn't of told him and tested in the morning anyway he would never have known so he wouldn't have been upset! Hehe. So kept the other 3(!!!) tests quiet.
Can't stop shaking...
xx
It's really funny you saying about you're husband, mine knows i cant help myself. But i still do the test without telling him, because i too feel abit silly sometimes.
But at the same time i dont want to get his hopes up, plus he'd only feel bad for me.
So sometimes it's ok to do something just for yourself.
I'm really pleased for you