I don't understand!!!

OK so I had a mmc back in February, and a D&C on 4th Feb. It took 8 weeks for my AF to reappear, and when it did it was really light. My AF is usually pretty heavy and lasts for 6 days, but this was much lighter and I had 1 day of bleeding and a few days of spotting. My second period arrived on time, and was still light.
So, I went to see the GP, and we think that they scraped too much out during the D&C and my endometrium may take a while to recover, if it ever does (cue me not being a happy bunny at all). I am due to have a scan to measure the thickness next cycle and then to see a gynaecologist after that. :roll:
Anyway, AF was due on Monday, and it hasn't shown up at all. I've had lots of cramping but no period. I've done 2 pregnancy tests, the last one this morning and both are negative. There's only a small chance I could be anyway, but would obviously be over the moon if I was. Otherwise I feel pretty pre-menstrual/pregnant ie crampy, sore boobs etc and I couldn't tell the difference last time.
What is going on???? Does anyone have any ideas??
I am so fed up of this now, I just want to be NORMAL for once!!!


  • Hi hun,

    Didn't want to r&r.

    So are they saying they may have made it hard for you to conceive in the future?

    I don't really have any advice but i think what they've done is disgusting! As if a mmc weren't bad enough as it is!

    I'd definately follow this up!

    Hope everything works out ok for you chick
  • I know exactly how you feel. I have not had anywhere near a normal cycle yet and I am three months on. I have tried everything I have had two smiley faces to say I am ovulating but I am still bleeding. How can I be bleeding and ovulating at the same time. I just want to be bacK to normal so bad I feel like I am never going to get pregnant again cause my body is so messed up. I have an appointment with gyne next Wednesday hop they can sort things. Some many people have had bfp I feel my time will never come. It is just so frustrating!!!!!:cry:
  • Lady2188, yes, that's exactly what my gp is saying - if they've damaged it too much than i may not be able to conceive in the future. This is not definite at the moment - we are waiting to see if it seems better, and then to have a scan mid-cycle to get a measurement, then basically see gynae and take it from there. But with no AF yet, I have no idea when I am supposed to have a scan!
    3054, i've been following your story and I was so happy for you when things seemed to be sorting themselves out after the tablets your GP gave you. I'm sorry things aren't great again. I know how you feel, it feels like everyone else is getting a BFP and we're still stuck trying to get our bodies back to normal so we can have the hope of TTC again! It's just not fair!
  • Well, just as I thought I was getting somewhere close to normal...... my body has totally flipped again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I got positive OV test day 11 and 12 and was expecting AF, but just got irregular bleeding, not very heavy at all, almost nothing really coming out, blood inside (Sorry TMI) but only spotting coming out?????????

    The I got positive OV (smiley faces) on what I tihink is CD 7,8,9,10, and they are still really strong positive's?????????

    Still having irregular bleeds, again not heavy, just inside mainly, and then nothing???????

    Today I went to the loo and I had an horrific experience, I passed what I can only describe as a small (brain) it was about acorn size, quite hard, it had blood on it, but it wasn't a blood clot, it was spongy, but quite clear and it looked like a brain......... never seen anything like it........ OMG, what the hell is going on??????????????????????????

    Thought I would bleed like hell afterwards, but nothing??????????????
    Did another OV test and still positive.

    I have no idea what is happening, wish I could click my fingers and be me again, I would give anything to be normal again.:cry::cry::cry::cry:

    Anyone had anything close to this, seeing the specialist on Wednesday, just hope everything is ok and we can TTC again?:cry:
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