Anybody know any talking round techniques?
Hiya, yet another post from me, but I can't get baby of my mind....
I'm really desperate to start trying now, (as i've mentioned a good few times lol) Just wondering if any of you know any good excuses/tips/techniques to make OH come on the same wave length as me??
I'm sure he could easily be influenced....I just need some good arguments
Hope someone out there can help me
Dani x
I'm really desperate to start trying now, (as i've mentioned a good few times lol) Just wondering if any of you know any good excuses/tips/techniques to make OH come on the same wave length as me??
I'm sure he could easily be influenced....I just need some good arguments
Hope someone out there can help me
Dani x
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I know he's right by wanting to wait lol I just can't seem to get over my broodiness!! Hmmm never mind, October will soon be here i'm sure!! lol.
Thank you for replying!! xx
Having your first is amazing, Its the best feeling in the world having that little baby growing inside of you! Eeee i'm getting all excited thinking about it again lol...
Dani x
Racheybaby we are exactly the same as you but the other way round!! My OH has the sensible head and I am the impulsive one....
So now you of the pill when are you going to TTC?? x
I am super broody and we discussed it a bit about a month ago. I told him how I felt and since then I've tried really hard not to mention it too much. I know that he is the sensible one and he is trying to make sure that we have:
a) quality time as just the 2 of us
b) enough money to have a baby and not have to scrimp and save
c) time to spend together when the baby arrives
We currently have a flat in London and a house in the country and split our time between them. this means 2 mortgages, and 2 of all our bills so isn't exactly a cheap way of living! Despite a 6 figure household inceom (the majority of which is his) I don't think that we could live with only one salary in our current situation. His job is chaotic and he regularly works 13 hour days so that is also not ideal for family life.
I know it goes against everything that everybody else has advised but try to not talk about your broody feelings too much in front of him. I set myself up with a blog (that he has no idea exists!!) so that I can get everything off my chest. Ive really found it helps and I am a lot less baby obsessed at home!
Man just need time to accept that they are going to move from "bloke" to father and that takes time to adjust too!
get the baby stages out the way together
they occupie each other
there so close (well mine are)
but on the practical side
you already have all the baby stuff so alot cheaper 2nd time round
could take up to 2years to get PG next time you never know
hope this helps and good luck hope hubby gives you the go ahead!!
xxx
Beyondbroody, My OH is already a father, we have a six month old daughter so its not the adjusting. My OH just likes everything planned properly, and money set aside! He likes to make sure we can more then manage.
Dani x