how do you.......
cope with twins or triplets? i dont have twins or triplets but i have a 2 1/2 yr old and a 9month old and have just found out im pregnant with my 3rd. im really scared that i wont be able to cope. were not financially stable and our relationship hasnt been great at the moment. i am so worried that i wont cope and am just wondering how you do it?!!
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good luck
sarah
As for your relationship having another baby is a great reason to try and soprt out your reltaionship whether its a good chat or some time apart thats needed its better to talk it through than suffer you need to feel secure especially now!
Also another tip is dont worry about the mess you have 2 children of course theres gunna be mess and if the neighbour calls round and theres washing and ironing piles or toys on the floor dishes in the sink and you have happy babies then who cares! I mean im not saying you have to live in a mess but it doesnt have to be pristine all the time i exhausted myself when the twins arrived trying to keep the flat tidy me tidy them tidy and happy to prove to whoever popped round that i was coping but i was exhausted emotionally and physically after 2 weeks! My mum came round and explained what i just said and from then on ppl who come round help me lol! If the twins are screaming and im dealing with them they wash the dishes lol! Its easier now when Sams here ill admit but i know that if for whatever reason he wasnt around anymore then i could do it alone! As long as you have some support then you will cope! And we'll be happy to help in whatever way we can! Hope this eased your worry's a lil a good essay to read haha! Anytime ya wanna chat xxx