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Upset- do you sometimes feel like life...
is running away from you and passing so quickly. Since we decided to strat trying i am so noticing this. Everone is either getting pregnant or already has children, i feel like i am being left behind and i so just want to be pregnant!!! I keep hearing 'OMG i got pregnant the first month etc' and just think i wish that was me.
Sorry for the whine but hubby is away for a week and AF seems to be making an appearance again!!!!!! I can't believe that in June it will have been one year since we decided to start trying. I honestly thought it would happen within a few months and it really hasnt been that way.
I try to be calm and chilled and relaxed about it all but to be honest everytime AF arrives i am down for a few days before startting it all again.
thanks for listening nobody understands like you all do...
xxx
Sorry for the whine but hubby is away for a week and AF seems to be making an appearance again!!!!!! I can't believe that in June it will have been one year since we decided to start trying. I honestly thought it would happen within a few months and it really hasnt been that way.
I try to be calm and chilled and relaxed about it all but to be honest everytime AF arrives i am down for a few days before startting it all again.
thanks for listening nobody understands like you all do...
xxx
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So glad you posted this I feel exactly the same way and feel I will never get pregnant at this rate.
Everyday someone announces they are pregnant, its all around me and I just have to deal with it.
I am really down too at the moment just dont know how to pick myself back up but I have my hol to look forward to in 6 weeks so am hoping I will come back with a bun in the oven!!
xx
I feel exactly the same. We have been trying 11 months now and niavely thought that we would fall pregnant quite quickly. Everyone around us seems to be announcing that they are pregnant, even those who werent trying and we are left behind!!!!
Sometimes it feels like its never going to happen. I start each month with loads of PMA and then AF arrives and get quite low and lose all hope that we are ever going to get our BFP.
At least we all have each other to share this with, it can be quite difficult when no-one knows what you are going through. I think even our friends that now we are trying and have children dont relaly understand as they all got pregnant within 3 months and just keep telling us to relax!!!!
xxx
Trying to stay positive but like you all say, it's sometimes impossible! To top it all off my body has gone crazy and I have no AF now! So if anyone tells me to relax and that 'it will happen when the time is right' I might just spontaneously combust!!!
Babydust to you all...xxx
Sx
Most of you probably don't know me because I haven't been on here much lately...we have been trying for nine cycles and it is sooooo frustrating...really all I can think about...
and there is my friend who smokes 1 packet of cigarettes a day, lives of crisps and coke and has an alcoholic for a boyfriend and falls pregnant accidentally....and here is my DH forcing down the veg he really hates, we both don't drink...
sorry for the ramble but i know that you guys understand
And SLOW, thank you for posting your story, reading it makes me feel more positive
xxx
babydust and PMA to all
We were just UPSI-ing for a while and i at least hoped that it was because we werent properly trying....now we are and im still failing.
Its so hard, i just stare at pregnant women or cant even look at them as i think im going to cry-im scared of seeing my own neice as i blubbed all over my friends baby when i saw him. At least that was my best friend and she knew exactly how i felt-my SIL is not like that at all!!
I cant even face some people as they say Oh but i thought you wanted children-as if i lied to them before? I do want children, i just cant do something junkies and school girls can!!
x xx x
Don't feel so upset as we are all here with you feeling exact the same way. Eery month I think its our time but again AF arrives.
Maybe our babies are meant to be born on 2011
I wish we all get our BFP this year ...
Ok ....................
i know i should have because i know AF is on her way but
I POAS this morning (FR) CD29, approx 11 days POV and there is a faint line!?!!?!?!?!?!??????????????????????????????????????????????????
Nearly feel off the toilet seat but i am trying not get excited because i had this last month and turned into a BFN and AF arrived but really hpe this is it!?
I really hope that it all works out for all of us, its so obvious that we all really want a little baby!!!
Good luck girls. So just to make sure- i am NOT excited just yet cant cope with that again this month....
xxx
I hope it is all our turn very soon xx
I am glad to read that there are other people feeling the same way as me. (If you know what I mean!)
I am so aware as each month goes by, and I agree with the putting life on hold almost.
We haven't booked a summer holiday yet as I am praying I will be pg and therefore not really want to fly and put the money towards other baby - related things
I had a mc earlier this year and soooo want to be pg by my EDD, not sure how I will get through it without that BFP.
I agree with trying82, you girls are fab and the support is something I couldn't do without
I also agree with Riham, I think we are going to have the most gorgeous 2011 bubbas.
Love MrsH xxx