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feeling stressed
anyone else?
im just struggling to think positive 
cant wait to see doc on thursday so i can find out about early scan.
my poor oh keeps trying to talk me into being positive but i cant
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I know, id love to do the same to. An then u think oh ill be fine once i have this scan an i know everything is ok, but ya dont u still worry until ur next an then u worry til u go into labour an have the baby in ur arms, but then u still worry so its definately from the moment u find out ur pregnant u never stop worrying about ur babies lol x
thatnks girls im a little less stressed today ive had a good nights sleep (1st in about a week) lol hope everyone else is all ok??
I've been feeling iincredibly nauseaous and tired but I still feel twitchy about there being nothing at the 3 month scan!
I'm also a bit panicky about how difficult it's going to be having two little ones to look after!!!
Bless you redhead I suppose I should stop complaining I don't have sickness
You have no reason to worry so try not to! Calm is best for baby!x
good luck juliewoo!! let us know how you get on!
my doc app is today feel like ive been waiting months for it not two weeks!!
xxxx
Hope scan went well today Juliewoo!
How did your Dr appointment go Puddy?
I had a bleed on Sunday so went for an early scan on Monday - thankfully all was well and we even seen the heartbeat (or fetal pole as they call it!). They also put my date back almost a week, so feel like I'm having to go through the really early stages all over again.
After that scare, and the absolute state I got myself into, I've sworn to myself (And DH) to relax and try not to panic about every symptom (or lack of!). Easier said than done sometimes though...! I've also been banned from google-searching - my DH now has to do it for me if I wasnt to know something, becuase no matter what you type in, you'll find one awful outcome amongst the hundred of lovely outcomes, and obviously I convince myself that is what's happening!
Still going to pay for a private scan just after 8wks - purely for my own piece of miind!
Aw no Puddy, I honestly thought they would be happy to refer you. At least you've got the private scan to look forward to though. How far do you expect to be gone at your scan?
Not bleeding anymore thank goodness! Just had one episode - seemed like lots of blood though - I noticed because it was actually dripping into the toilet bowl (sorry if tmi!) . But the midwife I spoke to at my EPU said they would actually call that spotting because it didn't carry on!
Just got my booking appt and first scan date through so going to time my private scan in the middle to keep me sane!
the doc will refer me ill just have to wait 2-3 more weeks and i honestly dont think i could bare it for that long without having a complete meltdown!!! so im having private scan next friday evening i should be 7+1.
how many weeks are you now?? (i keep loosing track of everyone!!)
i agree that google isnt the best idea but i spend half my day looking through it lol
Glad the bleeding stopped Cherrycracker. I had bleeding too! Think it is more common than you think.
Puddy... at least you have that scan to look forward to! It feels so surreal!x