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Don't know what to do - O/T
Sorry to whine yet again ladies, but I don't know who else to 'talk' to about this.
My husband has been signed off work for 4 weeks already due to severe depression, and has today been signed off for another 4 weeks. The doctor says he's getting worse and is sorting out some councelling for him. To make things worse, he is trying to help his cousin through a hard time too (his cousin tried to hang himself last week) so this is the last thing that my hubby should have to dealing with on top of his own problems. I don't know how to help him, I'm no good with words so I alsays end up saying the wrong thing.
As I'm only working p/t now, and hubby is on SSP we now can't afford our rent this month but don't know how to tell our landlord. We have told the council as we get some housing benefit and this may be affected by our reduced income, but until we get my husband's payslip on 1st Oct the council can't recalculate our payments, by which time our rent will be late. We don't have anyone that we can borrow from so I'm really starting to worry about what we're going to do.
So sorry to put such a downer on the day so early on, but I really would appreciate any advice.
Thanks, Vickie
My husband has been signed off work for 4 weeks already due to severe depression, and has today been signed off for another 4 weeks. The doctor says he's getting worse and is sorting out some councelling for him. To make things worse, he is trying to help his cousin through a hard time too (his cousin tried to hang himself last week) so this is the last thing that my hubby should have to dealing with on top of his own problems. I don't know how to help him, I'm no good with words so I alsays end up saying the wrong thing.
As I'm only working p/t now, and hubby is on SSP we now can't afford our rent this month but don't know how to tell our landlord. We have told the council as we get some housing benefit and this may be affected by our reduced income, but until we get my husband's payslip on 1st Oct the council can't recalculate our payments, by which time our rent will be late. We don't have anyone that we can borrow from so I'm really starting to worry about what we're going to do.
So sorry to put such a downer on the day so early on, but I really would appreciate any advice.
Thanks, Vickie
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im not going back to work so wont get paid this month and we will prob jsut scrape by.
jsut wanted to say dont panic and right down everything u need topay for in priority order. is there anyway u could skip another bill rather than rent?
also re ur husband is there anyone in the meantime he could talk to about how he is feeling? there are sometimes support groups etc.
hope everything gets better for u soon.
hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx