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and the 'advice' has started....
Immy is three weeks tomorrow and I've already had MiL tell me on three separate occasions to 'give her a dummy' when she knows hubby and I don't like them.
Don't get me wrong, love my MiL to bits but wish she'd leave it alone.
Anyone else getting unwelcome advice already.
Don't get me wrong, love my MiL to bits but wish she'd leave it alone.
Anyone else getting unwelcome advice already.
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She had just finished her bottle earlier and was dozing so I changed her nappy and she happily went back to sleep in grandads arms!!
Sil told me I should only change her every other feed! Uh no!!
My mum was the other one! She had only drunk 2 of the 4ozs if her milk the other day and nothing would get her to drink it! My mum said it's alright keep it fir her next feed! Uh no!!
Aleia is 16 days and is so happy and content with the little routine she puts herself in so why would j mess with it!! Grrr!!
It really annoys me that when pregnant or have a baby people see if their right of passage to tell you what to do even when they know you have done it all before!!
Sorry went off on a rant! Lol!!
Hope little immy is being good fir you
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it's amazing the advice people give you, even if you've done it all before....
Immy has good days and bad lol she's caught a cold off the other two so she won't settle at the minute and slept most of last night on my chest!
Glad Aleia is good and content!
MrsC - how is immy with the cold? Alfie has developed one since yesterday and I'm wondering what to do. He's quite snotty and looks like it's hard to breathe sometimes as he's so bunged up. I was thinking of calling the docs but not sure what they could do?
I too have had the dummy thing suggested on more than one occasion - even though me and hubbie have made it clear we don't want to go down that road. I'm getting much better at just saying "no we don't want to do that" now though, even if it offends - it's our baby after all!
Charlie caught a cold off of me on Friday and he has been really bunged up, especially of a night time. It seems to be getting better now - I didn't call he doc's as same as you Mrs_eee I didn't think they'd be able to do much.
It has made him much more unsettled in the evening though s I'm hoping he is over the worst of it now!
why should we feel judged as a mum from the dummy/nappy changes/how many times do we get woken at night questions and comments that keep coming our way.
I just grit my teeth and smile, as I'm sure they all did when they had unhelpful advice with their children
Poor little babies with the cold. It can't be nice fir them!!
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PS the best piece of advice I was ever given, thanks mum, was to listen to everyone smile sweetly then do what you want, you know your baby better than anyone else!
Was going to say the same as mummyJC about the cold, the saline spray helps them breathe so give that a try...