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Am i a bit crazy?
hiya girls
Hope you're all ok, i cant believe jay is nearly nine months, seems like the time has gone so fast! My reason for this post anyway is to let you all know that me and OH have decided to try for another one after xmas! Do you think im a bit crazy? i always wanted them close together anyway and my original plan was to start trying when jay was 9 months (which is nearly now!) so we actually wont be far off my plan! Im thinking it is gonna take ages again anyway so who knows what it will actually happen! It took 19months for me to get pregnant the first time which ended in m/c and then another 7 months until i was pregnant with jay, although we weren't using ovulation sticks or anything during any of that time (we just wanted to leave it down to nature) this time i plan on charting my temps and everything to make it bit quicker (hopefully!) So what do you all think? am i nuts for even thinking about it? lol
charlie x
Hope you're all ok, i cant believe jay is nearly nine months, seems like the time has gone so fast! My reason for this post anyway is to let you all know that me and OH have decided to try for another one after xmas! Do you think im a bit crazy? i always wanted them close together anyway and my original plan was to start trying when jay was 9 months (which is nearly now!) so we actually wont be far off my plan! Im thinking it is gonna take ages again anyway so who knows what it will actually happen! It took 19months for me to get pregnant the first time which ended in m/c and then another 7 months until i was pregnant with jay, although we weren't using ovulation sticks or anything during any of that time (we just wanted to leave it down to nature) this time i plan on charting my temps and everything to make it bit quicker (hopefully!) So what do you all think? am i nuts for even thinking about it? lol
charlie x
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Have fun trying! ;\)
Claire x
I have a 2 and half year gap with older 2, then a 10 year gap, then a 17 month gap with Joseph and Charlie and then a two and half with Charlie and Amelia.
the small gap was hard work but they can play so nice together. They are like twins sometimes. Joseph was about 9 months when I felt really ill. We had discussed another baby but we had not really decided. I went to my doctor who felt my stomach and said he thought I wa pregnant. I went for a scan the same day and lo and behold I was just over 9 weeks. Could not beleive it. On Josephs first birthday pics I have a very visible bump.....Looking back I think Joseph was treat much older than he really was. I feel quite sad about that. He was just a baby when Charlie came along but we expected much more of him.
Good Luck and if you go on the TTC forum you will get loads of sound advice. Keep us informed.
d xxx
charlie x
After the time i had i swore never again, but when people said "in time you will forget"...they were actually right, i cant wait for number two, I think we will stop at two though. at least for a few years.
xx
charlie x