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VixV · Apr 16, 2011 4:24AM

Morning Ladies.

i have my 12 week scan on saturday and I am so scared of a mmc, I have never had one before but for some reason and petrified!

I also found out that my husbands best friends wife is a week behind us and this will sound terrible but i am so scared that i will have to watch her go through her pregnancy if there is something wrong with me!

64linacre · Apr 12, 2011 4:34AM

Hi Vix

I felt the same, i was in a total panic. I know this is easier said than done, but try to relax. Do you think you have any reason to suspect a mmc?

Big Hug x

VixV · Apr 12, 2011 5:47AM

Hey!

My friend had one just before I feel pregnant with my son who is now 8 months. I cant remember being quite this scared when carrying him!

My HB thinks that its because with our son I had a slight bleed at 7 weeks and 6 days so got an early scan so I was able to see him then. Also any syptoms have gone other than being tired and not wanted to eat any cheader lol. I wonder if its also because we have told hardly anybody this time around so maybe it doesnt feel real yet.

I am just so scared about saturday that i am struggleing to sleep.

when do you have your scan?

VixV · Apr 12, 2011 5:50AM

Just saw on your ticker that you are 15 weeks so you must of had your scan!

64linacre · Apr 12, 2011 6:12AM

i had my scan about 3 weeks ago, i was petrified. With my DS i also has a slight bleed and could not remember feeling so paranoid! the pregnancy malarky is a worrying old business

When i saw the heartbeat it was such a relief, i am keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you, will look out for a post on Sat giving us an update

Sending Tons of positive vibes

demi2001 · Apr 12, 2011 7:41AM

bless you hun, ur not on ur own, its so scary, i remember with my dd i was so scared that they would scan me and nothing would be there, i had a mc in september xx im sure u will be fine xxxx huggles xx

CurlyGirly_09 · Apr 12, 2011 8:45AM

Ahh, I think we all feel nervous about the 12 week scans as it is such a big thing, however it sounds like everything is going well. Try to stay positive, I'm sure everything will be fine. Xxx

VixV · Apr 12, 2011 11:18AM

Thanks girls, its so nice to have people around that understand!

Amme · Apr 12, 2011 2:54PM

Ah your situation sounds very similar to mine. With DD I had a bleed at 9 weeks so had an early scan. This time around all was fine so I had to wait until my 12 scan to see baby and I was exactly the same as you, I was terrified when we went in there that they would say baby had stopped growing weeks earlier. Thankfully, all was fine with me and I am pretty sure that your's will be too, I think that this is a pretty normal feeling to have.

Just think how lucky we are to have such easy first trimester, a friend of mine is about a month behind me and has been off work for the last month with sickness.

Good luck for your scan, look forward to hearing how it went.

Amme

15 weeks today

Bethsmummy · Apr 12, 2011 4:55PM

Iv got mine tomorrow and i am so scared too. I really dont remember being this worried with DD1. I feel like i cant even think about seeing baby incase there isnt one and i might jinx it. Im such an idiot i know but i cant help it. Just wanted to let you know you arent the only one!

Tigger166 · Apr 12, 2011 4:58PM

My scan is on friday and i feel exactly the same. My sil had a mc at 12 weeks that was only picked up by the scan - so i am realy woried this time.

Fingers crossed we'll both be fine

VixV · Apr 13, 2011 8:12AM

Tigger its horrible isnt it!

Hope to see some happy news from you on friday!

xx

Tigger166 · Apr 13, 2011 5:13PM

I know - i'm full of doom and gloom today. Conviced everyhing will be bad news. Hopefully its just hormonal!

VixV · Apr 14, 2011 10:03AM

Tigger, I just wanted to wish you lots and lots of luck for tomorrow!

Make sure you let us know how you got on.

CurlyGirly_09 · Apr 15, 2011 2:19PM

Ahh, Tigger, how did it go today?

Viv, hope it all goes well tomorrow, remember to let us know how it goes! X

VixV · Apr 15, 2011 2:48PM

Thanks yep I will post on here might not be until late, as long as all goes well we are planning on going round to friends and family to spread the news! x

LittleMissPumpkinSweetPea · Apr 16, 2011 4:24AM

I felt exactly the same. Still do really and i've had 3 scans! Good luck for today although you won't need it, let us know how you get on. x

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